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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:04 PM on Wednesday, July 13th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 10:08 PM on Monday, July 18th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:29 PM on Thursday, August 4th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:10 PM on Thursday, August 18th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 1:22 AM on Monday, August 22nd, 2016
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:37 PM on Thursday, September 8th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
hard_yards ( member #23549) posted at 12:37 PM on Sunday, September 11th, 2016
I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...
forgivingnow ( member #33549) posted at 3:46 PM on Tuesday, October 4th, 2016
Me-BS 57
FWH-57
M 37yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yours
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 6:33 PM on Friday, October 14th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:18 PM on Friday, November 4th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 2:53 AM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
bumping. It is true, You are going to be OK. 
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 9:00 AM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017
I needed to read this today. For reasons other than infidelity, but it covers needed bases. It's also something I wanted to share with some new folks.
Hugs and love to all.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
burcm ( member #55812) posted at 6:25 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017
I can only say "wow" and nothing else :)
you are so literate and yet great content to learn from. Thank you !
Divorced the XWW and remarried to a wonderful woman much higher in both quality and beauty.
Brisee ( member #54540) posted at 5:41 AM on Tuesday, January 3rd, 2017
I cried the whole time I was reading your beautiful words. It's been five months. I know he isn't happy so I am not happy anymore. I was so happy before he met her and she screwed up with his head. Now, I feel empty, so sad all the time . I don't remember the last time I laughed. We have three kids, money problems so I don't know what will happen. I think he is still lying to me and hiding things. I want to stop crying myself to sleep at night. I am exhausted of all this pain. Your message gave me hope which I need because I am having problems believing that I will be happy again...
Me: bs 43 wh: 43 together 22 years, married 19.
3 dd
D day 1: July 19th 2016 PA lasted two months
D day 2: July 20th 2017 EA with best friend's wife. H moving with ow. Separated...
Lovingmyselfmore ( member #46119) posted at 3:24 AM on Sunday, January 8th, 2017
dday: september-12-2014
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:48 AM on Monday, February 6th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
Keepmoving1415 ( new member #55211) posted at 2:09 AM on Monday, February 6th, 2017
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 7:26 AM on Friday, February 10th, 2017
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 9:31 AM on Tuesday, February 14th, 2017
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
SoFloGirl ( member #56865) posted at 12:30 PM on Tuesday, February 14th, 2017
Thank you Jrazz! Today is my first holiday without him..your message and its timing...thank you. I've come this far, it's better than Dday..when I hit lows I remind myself of that...NC is so important in my healing, in all our healing. Thank you
3 years together
Cheated last year (w/OW for several months)
No kids
Dday: January 2017
Currently under NC as of 1-15-17
D underway..
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