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Check this one out!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WR4_chcwvoM&feature=youtube_gdata_player

"Somebody I used to know" by Gotye.

When it had all male lyrics it spoke to me, but the added female lyrics turned it around. Now he seems like the NPD and she seems like the one who had to leave. Almost like what our stbx's tell everyone and they feel sorry for them. Do any other NPD survivors feel this way?

Pink - Blow Me

I set his ringback tone to it so every time he calls me he hears:

I think I've finally had enough,

I think I maybe think too much

I think this might be it for us (blow me one last kiss)

You think I'm just too serious,

I think you're full of shit

My head is spinning so (blow me one last kiss)

I make sure I let it ring long enough so he can hear the whole thing - cause I'm nice like that!

Thanks for the link Toby, that was a beautiful song!

"Something I Can Never Have" by Nine Inch Nails

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UEW8riKU_tE

This song speaks to what i have become. So f-ing sad because it's true.

toby- Wow. Just added another one to my playlist. Thanks for posting.

"When You Finally Hurt the Love Right Out of Me," by Tammy wynette.

and

Walk a Mile in My shoes.

I have a few based on my mood for the day

Reason to believe...rod stewart

Wasted....Carrie underwood

Over you...daughtry

Mr know it all...kellly Clarkson

In the end...linkin park

So what....pink

Angie...stones

Already Gone - The Eagles

Shadow boxer. Fiona apple

Favorite mistake. Cheryl crow

Fuck you. Cee lo. Green

Georgia warhorse. Jj grey and mofro

Depends on my mood.

"I will not be broken" Bonnie Raitt

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_FcAg4ObRQ

"Hole in my head" Dixie Chicks

("I need a man like you like a hole in MY head!")

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p9VXIjypjfE

"I won't give you on us" Jason Mraz

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1-4u9W-bns&feature=branded

I'm still very confused...

In the beginning it was "I F#cking Hate You" by Godsmack. Now I'm not sure I have one.

Paint Me A Birmingham by Tracy Lawrence

It reminds me of a time long ago when I was a man I used to know and she was a woman I thought I knew. For me its like time traveling. The man I used to know is gone, but the first time I heard this song after d-day, it was nice to know he's not forgotten, if only by me.

eta...

Not the official music video, but a very good recording:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DHvVXMVSy4c

[This message edited by joeboo at 11:44 PM, September 8th (Saturday)]

"Remember When" by Alan Jackson

It fits us perfectly

^^ ditto ^^ and it still makes me cry

Shadow boxer. Fiona apple

Oh me too! Forgot about that one, it's RIGHT ON. Gives me chills!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QnXjISlKLuE

I used to love Right here waiting by Staind

Right Here

I know I've been mistaken

But just give me a break

And see the changes that I've made

I've got some imperfections

But how can you collect them all

And throw them in my face?

But you always find a way

To keep me right here waiting

You always find the words to say

To keep me right here waiting

And if you chose to walk away

I'd still be right here waiting

Searching for the things to say

To keep you right here waiting

I hope you're not intending

To be so condescending

It's as much as I can take

And you're so independent

You just refuse to bend

So I keep bending till I break

But you always find a way

To keep me right here waiting

You always find the words to say

To keep me right here waiting

And if you chose to walk away

I'd still be right here waiting

Searching for the things to say

To keep you right here waiting

I've made a commitment

I'm willing to bleed for you

I needed fulfillment

I found what I need in you

Why can't you just forgive me?

I don't want to relive

All the mistakes I've made

Along the way

But I always find a way

To keep you right here waiting

I always find the words to say

To keep you right here waiting

But you always find a way

To keep me right here waiting

You always find the words to say

To keep me right here waiting

And if I chose to walk away

Would you be right here waiting?

Searching for the things to say

To keep me right here waiting

Impossible by Shontelle

and

Fading away by Rihanna

Titanium - sia

Impossible- chantelle

Heart attack- trey songz

The break up song- wale

Id die without you- pm dawn . I feel like this songs is likely how he should feel right

Part of Me - Katy Perry

Wide Awake - Katy Perry

You Oughtta Know - Alanis Morrissette

Somebody That I Used To Know - Gotye

Since so many of you seem to be a fan of "Somebody That I Used to Know" I thought I would share this link to an acapella version that my kids love:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oO3jYSm1kRI

Check it out if you get a chance it's pretty neat