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Ring back tone - ideas for cheating songs?

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painpaingoaway ( member #27196) posted at 2:23 AM on Sunday, June 16th, 2013

Carolina Chocolate Drops, 'Hit'um Up Style'

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wKTXJUYiAT4&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Sia, 'Little Black Sandals'

Alanis Morissette's 'You Oughta Know'

Ashton Shepherd's 'Look it Up'

Bruno Mars 'Grenade'

Carrie Underwood's'Wasted and of course, 'Before He Cheats' (gotta love that video of her with that baseball bat!)

Jaron and the Long Road Home 'Pray for You'

Joey and Rory, 'Cheater, Cheater'


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debbysbaby ( member #32962) posted at 2:35 AM on Sunday, June 16th, 2013

REO Speedwagon "Take it on the Run"

Heard it from a friend who heard it from a friend who

Heard it from another you’ve been messing around

They say you’ve got a boyfriend, you’re out late every weekend

They’re talking about you and it’s bringing me down

Well I know that neighbourhood

The talk is cheap but when the story is good

And the tales grow taller on down the line

But I’m telling you, babe, that I don’t think it’s true, babe

And even if it is keep this in mind

You take it on the run, baby

If that’s the way you want it, baby

Then I don’t want you around

I don’t believe it, not for a minute

You’re under the gun so you take it on the run

You’re thinking of your white lies

You’re putting on your bedroom eyes

You say you’re coming home but you won’t say when

But I can feel it coming

If you leave tonight, keep running

And you need never look back again

-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004

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 Athena1979 (original poster member #39393) posted at 3:12 AM on Sunday, June 16th, 2013

Ok...thank you all for your input on songs.

Here is my new "jukebox" that I have created on "my Verizon" that I have named "cheatin' Rex".

Every time my WH calls me, these songs will rotate. Something new every time. I used to have our wedding song "can't help falling in love with you" by Elvis Presley for when he called.

Heres what he will hear now:

The first time he calls he hears about how ive been, since he's been gone with -

"since you been gone" by Kelly clarkson.

Next,begets to hear what I think he should kiss in "kiss this" By Aaron tippin.

The third time he calls he will get a nice upbeat tune of "who's cheatin who" (who's doing right, who don't even care anymore. Who's truck is parked next door).

The fourth time he calls I get to tell him via Jo d Messina that "my give a damns busted".

If he happens to call a fifth time, my phone will let him know "here's a quarter call someone who cares" by Travis tritt.

(here's a quarter call some one who cares. Maybe one of your sordid affairs)

Just too much fun for an angry cheated on spouse!

Married 11/11/11
2 kids
D-day 12/27/12
D-day 4/12/13
D-day 6/26/13
You know perfectly that you can only change what you accept....never forget that there are two kinds of pain, the one that hurts and the one that makes you change.

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Pass ( member #38122) posted at 4:30 AM on Sunday, June 16th, 2013

How about "God May Forgive You (But I Won't)" by Iris Dement?

[This message edited by pass at 4:42 AM, June 16th (Sunday)]

Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.

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aesir ( member #17210) posted at 4:52 AM on Sunday, June 16th, 2013

If you really want revenge, you could skip the cheating songs and just force him to listen to a rotation of some of the most mind destroying annoying music in existence. My suggestions:

The Bird Dance

The Hamster Dance

The Macarena

That other dance they always play.

Maybe that song by Bob Dylan where he sounds like a Yamaha dirt bike while singing.

[This message edited by aesir at 2:32 AM, June 16th (Sunday)]

Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.

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deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 5:22 AM on Sunday, June 16th, 2013

Done...by Band Perry

You've been wearing that crown and tearing me down

It's been a while since you've treated me right

You strung me along for far to long because I never gave up the fight

Until now

It's gonna hit you hard Til You see stars

Gonna put through you a world of hurt

Oh I don't believe in getting even but giving what you deserve

Oh my, oh my

Mama always told me that I should play nice

She didn't know you when she gave me that advice

I'm through, with you

You're one bridge I'd like to burn

Bottle up the ashes, smash the urn

I'm through with you, la ti da

I don't wanna be your just for fun,

Don't wanna be under your thumb

All I wanna be is…done

Done

You crossed the line too many times,

I'm gonna put you in your place

You play with dynamite don't be surprised when I blow up in your face

Oh my, oh my

Mama always told me that I should play nice

She didn't know you when she gave me that advice

I'm through, with you

You're one bridge I'd like to burn

Bottle up the ashes, smash the urn

I'm through with you, la ti da

I don't wanna be part of your fun,

Don't wanna be under your thumb

All I wanna be is…done

Done

(Done) with your selfish ways

And all the games you play

I'm through with you and everything you say

[This message edited by deeplysad at 11:23 PM, June 15th (Saturday)]

Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

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confused71 ( new member #39530) posted at 12:15 PM on Sunday, June 16th, 2013

Lies, Greed, Misery by Linkin Park, if you don't mind a bit of anger with your music.

Me: BS 39
Him: WS 44
Married 10 years, cheated at least 7 of those years
Two young DS
Multiple DDays in May 2013, and still waiting for the next DD to strike
Prostitutes abroad and in our home, 2 long-term simultaneous affairs - 1 PA & 1 EA/PA

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swizzlestick03 ( member #30102) posted at 2:15 PM on Sunday, June 16th, 2013

"You don't know me" by Ben Folds

Me: BW-36
Him: WS-35
D-Day #1: 16 August 2010
D-Day #2: 16 January 2011
One smallish kiddo.

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glassheart ( new member #36448) posted at 3:27 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

Tracy Lawrence 'Alibis'

I'm not a real big country music fan but this has got to be one of the greatest "cheating" songs out there.

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TXBW68 ( member #36456) posted at 3:48 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

I did the exact same thing when we were separated. Set it up so only he could hear them. I used:

Looking for a New Love - Jody Whatley

We are never ever getting back together - Taylor Swift

Blow Me - Pink

Part of Me - Katy Perry

Stronger - Kelly Clarkson

Somebody That I Used to Know - Gotye

Jar of Hearts - Christina Perri

Bound for the Floor - Local H

Verizon loved me for a while there. I think I downloaded a new one every week at one point.

Pissed him off every time!

Me (46) WH (42),2 boys 15 & 11
M 18yrs T 22yrs
Separated 10 months (4/12 to 2/13)
Final Total - #1/#2 ONS and #3/#4 EA/PA - left me for #4, didn't know about #2 and 3 until he moved back home
We are solidly in R now

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Markay81 ( new member #39387) posted at 6:44 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

I didn't put it as a ring back tone but just as a ring tone for when my WH calls. Chalk line by Three Days Grace. Because it definitely has the words on how he made me feel.

Ugh! Sometimes reality sucks.
BS (me) 31
WH (him) 33
OW - married Bar Whore Rig Rat
Married 14 years
3 amazing kids
DDay-3/03/2013 TT.The whole truth came out(hopefully) 06/09/2013
Currently on the roller coaster of R.

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Lucky ( member #6864) posted at 6:55 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

"Lyin' Eyes" - The Eagles

♥ WINE - the other fruit juice! ♥



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brokenfinger ( new member #39586) posted at 8:14 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

I only have a cell phone, and have never actually heard of a ring back tone ( american thing maybe?) But when my ex texts, its the siren from the game "silent hill"...Id sure like to change it to other things, but my kids can hear it lol

There is no stronger message, then dirt in your face.

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TheRealDeal ( member #39560) posted at 1:02 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

Though they aren’t all cheating songs, they are certainly close to it. Most of these are years old but still hit the mark. I don’t know if there are any official ringtones associated to them though.

Patty Loveless You Don’t Even Know Who I Am

Lorrie Morgan Good As I Was To You

Feel-good songs about decisions you've made

Tim McGraw Mexicoma

Toni Braxton Let It Flow

Jo Dee Messina Stand Beside Me

Jo Dee Messina Bye Bye

George Strait Give It Away

Me (BS): 47 him (Xws): 55
together 18 years
DDay1, DDay2, Dday 3: March - June 2013
Dday4 + June 2015 through January 2016
Status: done I called it quits 1-6-2016
The hardest part of letting go is realizing there wasn't much left to hold on to

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cuppacoffee ( member #39313) posted at 1:10 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

I just listened to that Joey a d rory song. Love it!

I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

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Cookie7088 ( member #30038) posted at 2:32 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

"Your Cheating Heart" ....either Hank Williams or Patsy Cline version....

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Cookie7088 ( member #30038) posted at 2:36 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

"Are You Over Me Now" by Gloriana...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nWiWUVn_Arg

It's a real stinger!!

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Neithan ( member #35924) posted at 2:48 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

Liar, by three dog night.

Also, for us BH types, Lemon Tree works too.

Me: BH
Her: WW
D-Day: 2/19/2010
Married 1981
That which does not kill me makes me more irritable

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NoTriangles ( member #35985) posted at 2:52 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

Grace Potter.

Never Go Back.

Me: Finding my SunlightHim: Traitor in my FoxholeLet go or get dragged.

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NoTriangles ( member #35985) posted at 4:09 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

Breaks Co-op

The Other Side

Me: Finding my SunlightHim: Traitor in my FoxholeLet go or get dragged.

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