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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 12:30 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
Phew! I got here late, and I'm so glad you decided to say no!
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
jrc1963 (original poster member #26531) posted at 12:51 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
Thanks Sad...
I was leaning towards "Hell No" but it was nice to have back up.
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:13 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
No Not in the early stages of withdrawl. However I do think it would be beneficial for him to see what a mess he is after he has somewhat stabilized, and discuss the fact that because of his addiction he is 30 years old with nothing to show for it.
This can be a sobering, and definitely good life lesson. Just not while they are in the throws of actual physcial withdrawl.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 4:30 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
IF it was a close friend or family member I might say it would be okay to witness some of it as a good teaching experience. And it's not much worse than seeing someone violently ill with food poisoning that anyone could witness at anytime. However, since this is a virtual stranger to your son why would his father want to subject him to that on purpose? That's just weird. His dad should take him out to spend time with him.
Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???
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