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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 8:14 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
(((NIK)))
Holding you and your mom close. I'm glad you feel at peace but I understand how hard this part of the journey is.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
JKL Vikings ( member #32094) posted at 8:19 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
(((NIK)))
Prayers coming up from Texas. I am glad you have peace
Her- Alpha Female 42
Me-FWH 44
Married since '02, together since 2000
D-day 2/10/2009
3 sons- J- born Oct 2001
K- born Sept. 2005
L- born Apr. 2008
We ALL have issues. It's how we deal with them that makes the difference
Crushed1 ( member #6449) posted at 8:22 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
((((nik)))) 
My heart goes out to you. I know how hard it is to sit and hold a loved ones hand knowing you are saying goodbye here.
~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 8:48 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
Sending you all my love and peaceful thoughts. (((NIK)))
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 8:53 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
Oh Nik. (((HUGS))) I pray this time will offer a peaceful passing.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
painpaingoaway ( member #27196) posted at 8:55 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
I'm so sorry NIK. I will pray for her peaceful passing.
((((NIK and family))))
D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 8:56 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
(((NIK))) My thoughts are with you.
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Kodi ( member #16237) posted at 9:15 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 9:36 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
A lot on your plate right now....
(((NIK & family)))
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Whalers11 ( member #27544) posted at 9:45 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
sullymeishadomi ( member #16305) posted at 9:50 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 10:02 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
Too_Trusting ( member #99) posted at 10:34 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
Oh NIK, I am soooo terribly sorry. I lost my Mom on Mother's Day (of ALL days ) this year. Even when you know their time is near, it is still heartbreaking. I was also there and held my Mom's hand. All you can do is to let her know you love her and are with her.
(((NIK & family)))
"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 10:35 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2013
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 12:16 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
(((NIK))) what a tough decision for your dad to have to had made. keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
Dreamboat ( member #10506) posted at 12:20 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
(((NIK)))
I vividly remember sitting at my own mother's bedside and saying goodbye. It was heartbreaking. I still miss her
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
unfound ( member #12802) posted at 12:46 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
holding you close in my heart NIK
ka-mai
*************
Kids on the playground can be so cruel. “Get off the swings you’re like 50, and stop talking about Soundgarden, we don't even know what that is."
SerJR ( member #14993) posted at 1:36 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
(((NIK)))
Keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.
Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 1:39 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
Prayers for you and your family. I was there, two years ago, with my dad. Peace to you and your mom.
Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again
Staying together for the kids
D-day 2010
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 1:46 AM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
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