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D & C scheduled for Tuesday. I need prayers.

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SadInNC ( member #42170) posted at 1:38 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014

Prayers (((Flatlined123)))

BS/Me WH/Him

"Your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth." -Unknown Wise Person

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starstruck ( member #29547) posted at 1:44 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014

Prayers and good thoughts coming your way!

DDay 7/29/2010
Am hoping to reconcile!! Am I crazy or what?
If we all did the things we are capable of doing we would literally astound ourselves-Thomas Edison

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Allornothing ( member #42354) posted at 7:57 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014

(((Flatlined123))) Consider it done!

Me- BS 44
Him- FWH 44
Married 20 years, Together 27
Kids- 24,23,16,15
D Day- 7 Sept 2013
OW- Irrelevant

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 8:07 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014

((((FL)))))

You will do well.

Prayer and Mojo your way.

I had a D&C awake one time, trust me you want the anesthesia, and it's some neat stuff.

Big breath in and blow it out, and relax.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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Morhurt ( member #40166) posted at 8:26 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014

I have thickening of the lining as well, just had a small biopsy, no cancer. I'm sure your results will be the same. Big hugs!

Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

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livebythesea ( member #38900) posted at 8:34 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014

We will pray for you, you need to pray too. Before you close your eyes tonight, before you close your eyes in O R, have positive thoughts. Push away any negative thoughts! Picture yourself happy, healthy ... Great big hug to you!

Me - 65 I often have to remind myself of my age! Husband - 65 DD1 April 5 2013 (a lie)DD2 April 23 2013DD3 June 22 20133 children 5 grandchildren

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 9:38 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014

I'll be praying that this procedure is the cure for you. That you'll heal quickly and well. (((hugs)))

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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TheBestMe ( member #39476) posted at 12:46 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014

Hugs...I went through this last April, right after DD. All the same tests. In fact I saw GYN today for the 1 year follow up and regular yearly exam.

Don't worry...get some rest tonight. By the way, the medicine that they put you to sleep with, Oh Yeah!!! That was the first real sleep that I'd had in a long time.

(((Flatlinesd123)))

ME Doing Better
WH Trying As Best He Can
Married 24 years
Status: Working towards friendship
D Day #1 - 2007 My gut told me
D Day #2 - 2010 His D told me
D Day #3 - 1/11/2013 OW Confirmed
LTA 7 years

Both feet pointed forward; positive

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solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 5:11 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014

(((Flatlined))) Millions of hugs for you.

BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams

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newbeg2011 ( member #31892) posted at 12:08 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014

Praying for you rt now

Never forget what I have done to BS but don't let guilt make me quit. STAY IN THE FIGHT ! ! !
WS 47 me
BS 47 her
5 Great Children
DD 1/15/11

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 Flatlined123 (original poster member #35862) posted at 12:31 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014

Waiting to be taken back for pre op. Thanks for all the good thoughts.

Me: BS H: WS4 kids DD #1 7-11-08DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.Started R in 12-09"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

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jackie89 ( member #38271) posted at 1:54 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014

Prayers and Hugs going your way!

Wishing that all will go as planned!

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MoonLitSmile ( member #24746) posted at 4:27 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014

Thinking of you today

Me- 40
FWH- 40 recovering SA

Her- 45, a self-centered bitch in Naples, FL concerned with no one but herself forever known as Cumdumpster

DDay- July 13, 2013

Back off man- I'm a scientist!
~ Dr. Peter Venkman

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StillStanding1 ( member #40144) posted at 6:10 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014

Said my prayer for you this morning... and hoping for a positive update. Still sending positive mojo your way...

Me: BS50s Him: WH50s
M 25 years - DD DS DS
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday - 2/13, S for 1 year, now R

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JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 6:44 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014

Thinking of you - I had one last month but for a different reason - if you have any questions about recovery please feel free to ask or PM, I've gone through the procedure twice. I hope your surgery & recovery is quick and easy, and you get reassuring answers. ((HUGS))

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lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 6:55 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014

Hope everything went well. Hugs.

Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 7:46 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014

Hope all is well, and you are being treated like a queen so you can recover.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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 Flatlined123 (original poster member #35862) posted at 3:08 AM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014

Thank you SO much everyone!

Procedure went good. The Dr took biopsies of the thickened areas, but didn't think they looked too worrisome.

Anesthesiologist was great and so were the drugs. I don't even remember making it into the operating room.

H has been great. We had dinner and I decided I needed a new purse from Macys. OMG, it must have been the anesthetic, because I've never spent that amount of money on a purse ever! I love it though! And it was on sale and I did have a coupon.....how's that for justification?

Slept the day away and now getting ready to head back to bed. I took the next two days off from work.

Thanks again everyone. You can never describe just how much all the support we all get here means and what a blessing this site is.

Me: BS H: WS4 kids DD #1 7-11-08DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.Started R in 12-09"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

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Getting to Happy ( member #35200) posted at 4:44 AM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014

Get Better Soon. Glad to hear your surgery went off without a hitch.

And you got a new purse out of the deal!

WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:21 PM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014

H has been great. We had dinner and I decided I needed a new purse from Macys. OMG, it must have been the anesthetic, because I've never spent that amount of money on a purse ever! I love it though! And it was on sale and I did have a coupon.....how's that for justification?

I have to work cohorts that did the same thing the day they had their colonscopies. LOL. Good for you. Enjoy the bag, and be good to you, so you can heal.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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