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sewardak ( member #50617) posted at 6:20 PM on Friday, August 10th, 2018
"It is annoying that I have to accept that."
you do??
after an affair I think both spouses should practice radical honesty with each other. that includes telling her.
3yrwait (original poster member #29907) posted at 1:26 AM on Saturday, August 11th, 2018
Thanks for all the comments. They were all valuable.
As previously mentioned, I no longer care about AP. At one time I would have danced on his grave but it just seemed like a nonevent for me.
This evening I told fWW. I expected her to be sad about him or mad at me. She was neither. She just made a comment that he wasn’t very old and wondered what happened.
I told her I was surprised at her lack of a reaction. She said she is just sad that I think she doesn’t love me.
There are other issues to discuss with her. I am learning to voice them, and she is learning to be receptive. It is a long process.
Me: BH (early 50s)Her: WW (early 50s)Married 25 years1 daughter, under 10DDay July 2007
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