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cancuncrushed ( member #28156) posted at 2:02 PM on Sunday, June 30th, 2019
I have a friend...…….
who had complete ED for 3 plus years....
who took testosterone shots....which didn't help physically....
The shots convinced him, he could mentally...it was his partners fault.....that he couldn't perform..
He decided he needed an AP...he was entitled...afterall...who is expected to stop sex?
added Viagra to the mix...and had very little result if any...
He was absolutely shocked when the sex talk took place...he believed and continued to believe he was a star performer....one any young women would crave...absolutely shocked...so what if it was mostly attempted...
AS you pointed out......what kind of sex was it for his spouse? What did she want? His reality was very skewed...completely unable to accept it...Its not a job..
[This message edited by cancuncrushed at 8:08 AM, June 30th (Sunday)]
ShutterHappy ( member #64318) posted at 2:16 PM on Sunday, June 30th, 2019
This affair is ongoing? Are you going to inform his wife?
Me: BH
Divorced, remarried.
I plan on living forever. So far so good
Ripped62 ( member #60667) posted at 2:26 PM on Sunday, June 30th, 2019
Prissy4lyfe
It seems you have popped his "wayward" balloon by providing the truth. Well done.
I would be thrilled to dine at a luncheon or dinner party with you in attendance.
Your wit and character would have me/others in attendance rolling with joy and laughter.
Thank you for sharing.
Babette2008 ( member #69126) posted at 3:07 PM on Sunday, June 30th, 2019
:Laugh: 
Hope2B ( member #40474) posted at 9:36 AM on Monday, July 1st, 2019
Thank you so much for this! Reality hits people right in the face sometimes. I hope the WS really internalizes what you said!
I was told once, by a male friend, that any time a man has sex and gets off, it's good sex. 
Standing ovation to YOU, prissy4lyfe!!!!!!
DDay: Feb. 25, 2013Trickle Truth/DDays: Sept 10, 11, 13, 15 (2013)
realitybites ( member #6908) posted at 1:33 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2019
This guy was REALLY floored That his wife could possibly have not been satisfied with their sex life. LOL. This asshat was focused on how HE was going to get the attraction "back" to his wife and never considered that HE was the problem. Never crosses his mind that he got bad sex with his wife because HE GAVE BAD SEX.
Thank you for pointing this out. ^^^^^^
SOOOOOO tired of hearing the same crap over and over.... "I don't get any sex at home" "My husband/wife just isn't into what I like" "I can't go without sex" But it seems to be OK to KEEP a marriage cuz ya know.... they would have to live on a budget and they would have to share the kids... and gosh... that's not fair.
It really is true when they say that the one who cheats is usually the one who gives the least to the marriage.
If you want good sex you gotta GIVE GOOD SEX.
Stop expecting loyalty from people who cannot even give you honesty.
He stopped being my husband the first time he cheated. It took me awhile to understand that I was no longer his wife.
mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 3:10 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2019
It really is true when they say that the one who cheats is usually the one who gives the least to the marriage.
^^^WORD
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 6:39 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2019
I think this might be my favorite post on SI 
You have a way with words prissy4lyfe.
My WS needs this special announcement
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 6:50 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2019
Standing. Slow. Clap.
Laughing so hard I can hardly type.
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
Babette2008 ( member #69126) posted at 7:48 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2019
If you want good sex you gotta GIVE GOOD SEX.
This ^^^^^^^
That includes paying attention to your partner *before* you are in bed. If you ignore your partner all day/night they probably are not going to be in the mood when you decide to come to bed.
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