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Motheroftwocats (original poster new member #71542) posted at 8:30 AM on Friday, January 10th, 2020
SlapNutsABingo,
as far as I know the Obs doesn't speak english so that would be difficult if not impossible.
I informed my WH last night. Suffice to say it didn't go well. We ended up fighting. I am waiting for him to cool off. This shit never ends.
jadedangel ( member #26979) posted at 9:11 AM on Friday, January 10th, 2020
I informed my WH last night. Suffice to say it didn't go well. We ended up fighting. I am waiting for him to cool off. This shit never ends.
Good grief. I hope that he wasn't blaming you for this shit show. He invited this crazy in your life when he couldn't keep it in his pants.
I'm glad you blocked OBS. But keep your guard up. He sounds a little unhinged.
Divorced 2007.
EXWH died 2011
Remarried 2018!
Motheroftwocats (original poster new member #71542) posted at 9:22 AM on Friday, January 10th, 2020
jadedangel,
He first wanted to call the Obs to treathen him. I stopped him. Then proceeded to say harsh things to me, basically if I wouldn't have talked to the Obs this wouldn't have happened. Yeah it was surreal.
jadedangel ( member #26979) posted at 10:22 AM on Friday, January 10th, 2020
basically if I wouldn't have talked to the Obs this wouldn't have happened.
Ugh. Your WS is a piece of work. Never mind the fact that he boinked the man's wife. 
Divorced 2007.
EXWH died 2011
Remarried 2018!
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 10:38 AM on Friday, January 10th, 2020
I’m sorry you are facing this.
Unfortunately now you are dealing with two idiots!!! 
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
Gottagetthrough ( member #27325) posted at 12:35 PM on Saturday, January 11th, 2020
Oh wow.. I can’t believe a therapist would suggest that
Dispirited ( member #59226) posted at 2:39 AM on Sunday, January 12th, 2020
We had a total of 3 phone calls. I don't consider I prolonged the contact more than I had to. He blindsided me with this last time we spoke. I don't intend to be his f.. ck buddy or anything like this. It was just a vent. I know the right thing to do. I just didn't expect this.
Expect what? A sudden attempt at drawing you in once again?Forgive me, but people who always think that without such assholes they are losing out. I am speechless:)
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