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GoldenR ( member #54778) posted at 6:16 AM on Tuesday, October 27th, 2020
I'll keep you and your H in my prayers, SMS.
Cooley2here ( member #62939) posted at 4:34 PM on Tuesday, October 27th, 2020
Let him put his hands on you and you put your hands on him. People need physical touch. Babies die if they don’t have it, that’s how important it is. If you can get him to agree just to cuddle and be close to each other that might be all either one of you need. I am so sorry about this
When things go wrong, don’t go with them. Elvis
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 2:40 AM on Wednesday, October 28th, 2020
((SMS))) sorry you are going through this.
You have nothing to lose through open communication— so be completely open. He wants to still be the guy who bonds that deeply with you. Find a way that works for you both.
(((SMS)))
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 5:27 AM on Wednesday, October 28th, 2020
I’m so sorry about his condition. There is just no explanation for a situation like this. 😢
My daddy used to carry a card around with him in his wallet. It said something like, “Allow others to do something for you, because it gives them joy to do so “.
I truly believe that a BIG part of my H’s “issues” (health wise) is that we do not have a physical relationship now.
What one poster said was about “failure to thrive”. Kids who do not get held and touched and loved on.
My H and I both have the adult version.
Maybe see this as a gift to him. If it is something he wants, there is absolutely NO reason to feel odd or selfish about it.
🙏🙏🙏 sent your way.
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 5:18 PM on Monday, November 2nd, 2020
Hey SMS...How are things going in this area?
And how is your H feeling?
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 6:04 PM on Monday, November 2nd, 2020
Oh I wish I had seen this sooner. I'm so sorry for his illness. How awful for you both.
It's ok to receive without feeling guilty and just touching him, cuddling etc might help him feel close too.
Hugs.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
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