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beautytoashes5 ( member #41900) posted at 4:22 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014

A divorced whore. Worked on payroll for a big company. An evil woman.

posts: 112   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2014   ·   location: Southern California
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MoonLitSmile ( member #24746) posted at 4:22 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014

Wow, I'm still floored every time I read posts like this one:

OW1- crap product peddler for QVC- her husband died from an inoperable brain tumor and she just couldn't 'handle it' so she cheated on him while he was dying in hospice then married that guy as soon as hubby passed, then realized she made a mistake marrying him and went looking for someone new- enter my dumbass WH

OW2- a speech pathology teacher in Immokalee, Fl. and my former friend. I have emails that she sent to my WH naming her students and complaining about them, saying how dumb they are and what ungrateful brats they are. Sure glad she does not teach my kids

Me- 40
FWH- 40 recovering SA

Her- 45, a self-centered bitch in Naples, FL concerned with no one but herself forever known as Cumdumpster

DDay- July 13, 2013

Back off man- I'm a scientist!
~ Dr. Peter Venkman

posts: 728   ·   registered: Jul. 9th, 2009   ·   location: Southeastern PA
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IsthereEVERanend ( member #42216) posted at 4:30 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014

Respected local businessman. A member of our high council in our church. A friend and wife's co-worker. A nice guy. (Words from the mouth of my fww, who happens to have BPD type 2) Affair fog induced observation just before her ea/pa. Now not so much.

Me: Older than dirt
FWW 63
DD 8/1990 She confessed to a 2 month ea/pa
Asked forgiveness but volunteered to leave. No way was I going to give her the boot

The eight most feared words used together in the English language: We need to talk. Th

posts: 88   ·   registered: Jan. 26th, 2014   ·   location: Utah
id 6712228
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mandala ( member #41724) posted at 6:08 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014

OW -- married retired secretary who loves posting pics of her grandkids on facebook.

Also loves posting scripture quotes and what she is teaching the kids at Catholic Sunday School.

Other favorite topics include how not to let other people hurt you, what a good friend really is, and what a "strong" woman is.

Me: BW 50
Him: WH 50
Married 21 years
Four awesome kids
EA Began 6/2013 PA 8-9/2013 (4 meetings) DDay 9/10/2013
OW : "friend" - older, fatter and uglier than me.
Working on R

posts: 59   ·   registered: Dec. 19th, 2013   ·   location: usa
id 6712302
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TheBestMe ( member #39476) posted at 10:28 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014

Desperate nasty old project living ghetto whore who is trying to elevate herself by using her only talent. Oh by the way, she's such a good role model for her 22 years old daughter that she does not want her to know that the man she has had in their lives for a decade IS MARRIED and had been living with his wife.

ME Doing Better
WH Trying As Best He Can
Married 24 years
Status: Working towards friendship
D Day #1 - 2007 My gut told me
D Day #2 - 2010 His D told me
D Day #3 - 1/11/2013 OW Confirmed
LTA 7 years

Both feet pointed forward; positive

posts: 508   ·   registered: Jun. 7th, 2013   ·   location: Inner Peace
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bitterbetrayal ( member #26326) posted at 11:33 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014

Has anyone noticed that the majority of these replies are about the OW. Am I right in saying that there are vastly more women using this site than men?

Me. BS 52 at the time
Him.WS 52 at the time and a priest!
D-DAY 12/07/09.
Married 25 years at the time.
Two children 20 and 22 at the time.

posts: 246   ·   registered: Nov. 26th, 2009   ·   location: UK
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littleflower ( member #42673) posted at 5:50 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014

OW was his close friends wife and my midwife

DD 13/1/14
Him WH
OW - what a cow
3 kids under 4

posts: 101   ·   registered: Mar. 5th, 2014
id 6722494
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MammaMia ( member #34030) posted at 6:04 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014

The bimbo is unemployed living off of her parents' money and whoever man will take her out, buy her things and feed her.

The second woman is a school librarian.

And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive.But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.”

posts: 966   ·   registered: Nov. 27th, 2011   ·   location: Somewhere in the South
id 6722498
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Jls0320 ( member #41192) posted at 6:13 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014

A super klassy manager of a gas station, he also works for the company

Me: BS 2 young kiddos
Him: EXWH, SA/NPD, Craigslist, porn, cam sites. EA/PA with disgusting co-worker troll
Too many DDays 9/13-1/15, too many chances to be a good man
Together 16 yrs, married 7yrs,
Divorced 2/11/15
I deserve to be the ONLY one

posts: 1960   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2013
id 6722504
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Laura28 ( member #28997) posted at 6:32 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014

Oldernotwiser

Let me see, #1 fellow nursing student

#2 Nurse

#3 Nurse

#4 Um let's see, oh another nurse

I think I see a pattern....

#1Patient in hospital who was also a nurse co-worker

#2 Nurse coworker

#3 Nurse coworker

#4 Nurse coworker

.........Trickle truth.........Trickle truth.........Trickle truth.........Trickle truth

#65 probably also a nurse coworker but then..... he tells lies so who knows???

I can so relate!!!!

Laura

Married 42yrs Me BW 68Yrs Him F?WH 70yrs OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted. Dday May 28 2010. OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years). OW2 2002(8yrs PA). OW3 2009(1Yr PA). Others?? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck 'em"

posts: 2791   ·   registered: Jul. 8th, 2010   ·   location: Australia
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vivere ( member #34465) posted at 10:08 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014

Many nameless, faceless prostitutes and a young girl OS who I suspect thought she was working her way into a good career.

Also prostituting herself I suppose.

Pathetic

You are responsible for your own happiness :)

posts: 316   ·   registered: Jan. 8th, 2012
id 6722581
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lovehatelove ( member #42541) posted at 10:19 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014

OW is a counselor........

DDay ~ 2/23/13

posts: 163   ·   registered: Feb. 20th, 2014
id 6722584
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Dawn58 ( member #37656) posted at 10:25 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014

She was the director for the Police Activities League, now unemployed and living with my STBX. She found her retirement plan.

I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.

posts: 491   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2012   ·   location: Southern California
id 6722586
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joannie ( member #42486) posted at 10:26 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014

OW is a near white blonde, works in a factory making pate, lives up the road..small, petite etc.tattooed..my H hates them went mad when our sons got them !!!!!

Divorced, sickly, does not care what she does to whom, when and where...nice person...NOT

me BS 57
Him WS 56
Married 37 years 2 sons 5 grandchildren

posts: 738   ·   registered: Feb. 17th, 2014   ·   location: France
id 6722588
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UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 10:49 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014

Calls herself “Acting headteacher/school improvement partner” on her local primary academy school director profile.

Calls herself an Education Consultant on Linkedin.

I just call her what she is.

Currently “acting head” for a couple of terms at a “special measures” (failing) primary school. This is from her “Welcome” page:

“Our aim is to help our children to be the best that they can be, in all that they do. We want them to have respect for themselves, each other and the world around them.”

Shame her own morals are in the gutter.

[This message edited by UKgirl at 4:50 AM, March 14th (Friday)]

Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

posts: 4046   ·   registered: Nov. 17th, 2007   ·   location: UK
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anemie ( member #37543) posted at 11:16 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014

Ow 1-his 18yo employee -PA

Ow 2-Craigslist Prostitute

Ow 3- another employee EA

Ow 4- Craigslist Prostitute turned LTA 2 weeks after our son was born, she stalked and harassed me, assaulted me in a bar and aborted OC. Im amazed I didn't have a complete and total breakdown after this one.

Ws now in IC, marriage counseling and about to start being treated for SA.

D-Day October 18th, 2012 D-Day2 October 5th 2013
4 kids 12,11,7, 1 and one sweet little newborn

posts: 112   ·   registered: Nov. 18th, 2012   ·   location: MA
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Kattc ( new member #42122) posted at 4:23 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014

Music teacher at the local junior high. My kids were all taught by her .

At my daughters grade 8 grad she had the choir sing my hubby's favourite song. Ugh

posts: 18   ·   registered: Jan. 19th, 2014   ·   location: Canada
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outside4me ( member #42430) posted at 8:31 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014

OM: born again Christian.

I'm amazed at how many church going Christians were listed in this thread. The hypocrisy is jaw dropping!

But that's just like...my opinion, man. I could be wrong.

posts: 276   ·   registered: Feb. 11th, 2014   ·   location: Colorado
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Sparkywater ( new member #41932) posted at 3:26 AM on Sunday, March 16th, 2014

OW- Welcome Back from Deployment surprise to XBH#1..caught in the act! Cheated on BS#2 BEFORE their wedding, married her anyway. Now stay-at-home because BS#2 can't trust her... she got fired from a convenience store for taking men in the back room for a 'special' convenience. Oh and all this was before we met her!

Makes many FB claims to support the 'military' yet A with my WH was while I was in Afghanistan. Weird way of supporting the military.

BW(me)49 / WH 41
DS (18)
Married 20 years
Affair 2 month EA/ 1 week PA
DDay 7/18/12
In R since Aug12; true R for him Oct13.

posts: 28   ·   registered: Jan. 6th, 2014   ·   location: NJ
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BW2639 ( member #34875) posted at 4:46 AM on Sunday, March 16th, 2014

He was some kind of electrical engineer, worked nights so it made it easy to screw around with my W during the day. Oh, and he later became my son's coach ( while the A was still going on. )

married 21 yrReconciling

posts: 234   ·   registered: Feb. 21st, 2012
id 6724630
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