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jimbo25319 ( member #31891) posted at 3:29 AM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014

My STBXWW's AP is a pilot she flew with at work. STBXWW is a flight attendant.

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caboo ( new member #32398) posted at 3:35 AM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014

Nurses x3

Unfair or not, I can't say I think very highly of that profession anymore.

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awesomedamaged ( member #36067) posted at 7:17 AM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014

Who cares what it is? A lying, hoodrat, whore, mother of 3, divorced, who cleans houses for a living and had this on her FB: "I hate liars and backstabbers" which by the way she took off her FB after "someone" pointed it out to her. What a dumbass!!!!!!!

"You can't unring that bell or unfuck that woman." (Chump Lady)

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Betrayed67 ( member #38134) posted at 7:41 AM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014

My WH's ONS was an STD-infested whore single mother of two who lived on government support at that time.

[This message edited by Betrayed67 at 1:41 AM, February 11th (Tuesday)]

Me-BW 46 yo;Him - WH 53 yo
Married 13years
One daughter together 9yo, 2 stepchildren(His from previous marriage)
Various DDdays (see my profile)
ONS and multiple "friendships" with women in various online dating sites

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Girlietoo ( member #38719) posted at 12:24 PM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014

Recent grad- engineer in training, a co-worker

Me- 40
Him- 47
March 9, 2013- the day my heart died

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Abbondad ( member #37898) posted at 12:34 PM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014

Psychiatric nurse. A caring, insightful, sensitive soul.

Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.I will face my fear.I will permit it to pass over me and through me.-Dune

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byefornow ( member #41992) posted at 1:21 PM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014

Psychology major. Business associate by trade.

BW- me
WH - him
married over 25 years

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MindMonkey ( member #41679) posted at 4:50 PM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014

Lots of nurse AP's!!!

Can someone who is an RN and faithful give me some hope that the profession is not a death trap of infidelity? My FWW is a nurse and it scares the hell out of me.

OM1: Shitty excuse for a nurse. I still get the skin crawls around male nurses.

OM2: Twice divorced anesthesiologist. He cheated on and dumped wife #1 after she worked to put him through school. Second wife went to jail on prescription drug charges. Wonder where she got them?

BH, 35, CoD, Military...sober since 6/17/14
FWW, EA/PA (x2) different OM coworkers
Reconciling since 8/1/13
100% ready to file at next dealbreaker...don't test me.

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TrulySad ( member #39652) posted at 5:45 PM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014

Two were military members

One was a nurse/Christian Counselor

One a paramedic

One was a student

The rest.....who really cares. Sigh....

Me : no longer a BW or BGF. Starting over!

Them : in the past, where they can stay.

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SurelyNOT ( member #40617) posted at 6:15 PM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014

My former h's ow, is on disability, a stay-at-home mom with a 10 year old autistic son, and a 19 year old daughter who has quit school and has been thrown out of the house because she has a drug problem, she is also gay. ow recently had a post on her fb regarding me that called into question my capabilities as a mother, because my two children want to have nothing to do with their errant father. According to her I have broken down their relationship - can you believe that

My ex also is very intolerant of gay people, people with special needs/handicaps, etc. so I cannot comprehend how he has found his "fresh start" with ow and her children. But you reap what you sow - and you my pitiful ex have made your choice.

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Iwilltranscend ( new member #42631) posted at 9:36 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

OW#1 (EA/PA): military, divorced with one child. Her ex-H left her for her best friend.

OW#2 (EA): woman 10 yrs my WH's senior, works in State Dept

BW: me (41)
WH: 43
DD#1: Feb 4, 2013
DD#2: May 6, 2014
Married 2010

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OutoftheDeep ( member #42601) posted at 10:31 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

Office peon, late 20's, has a body like a potato, kids by some absent father/fathers. A dullard, yet arrogant and vain and self entitled. All her fb posts usually involve absolutely nothing but posting drinking pictures. I'm trying to figure out if my husband had an affair with her.

She makes it a point to work in male dominated industries like automotive & construction. I think she does this because although she tries really hard to be hot, she isn't. By being in these industries she has access to dozens of men and basically no other female competition.

Me - BW 40s
He - exWH 40s
2/15 Over. I had enough. I don't care anymore, and it feels awesome. He can have all the strippers, coworkers, and exes he wants now. Except now he doesn't think they're so appealing. Oh well.

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BtraydWife ( member #42581) posted at 10:35 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

OW#1 -exGF -she's a stay at home mom

OW#2 -stripper/porn star who joined the circus at age 3, yes age 3, her family dumped her

OW#3 -coworker-it's an office environment

So I feel like we've covered the 3 most common.

Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010

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ziganska ( member #41690) posted at 10:37 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

Office intern, who apparently never had a real relationship (surprise) and has always been the OW in her short, sordid, disgusting life

Me: 42
Him: 49
DD: 12/2/2013
Married: 9 years but together for 15
Recovering, Reconciling, Rebuilding, Restoring

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TICKED OFF ( member #8291) posted at 10:44 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

Worked as a hostess at Baker's Square.

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Allornothing ( member #42354) posted at 10:53 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

Skelewhore is an unemployed drug abuser, never married, 2 kids to different fathers, living in a home her parents own and on government benefits. Winner!!

Me- BS 44
Him- FWH 44
Married 20 years, Together 27
Kids- 24,23,16,15
D Day- 7 Sept 2013
OW- Irrelevant

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brokengirl37 ( member #42530) posted at 12:28 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014

OW is an older (50) gutter whore leather C-nt. My Co-worker who works at a major grocer chain. Has no morals....apparently my life was better than hers, so she thought she would try to take it from me.

Me: 40
WH : 42
2 Boys Age 12, 16
D-Day Feb 16 2014
OW: My Co-worker

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Uhtred ( member #40392) posted at 12:40 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014

Other man #1 54 year old goofy looking nerd 22 years her senior, Married with grandchildren our children's ages, British Petroleum employee. 1 year long physical and emotional affair - I found out and confronted.

Other man #2 Ex military married with Children. Emotional, Sending dirty messages and pictures affair. Found out and confronted.

Me: BH 38years old DDay 4-29-13Her: FWW 39

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Dobegirl ( member #41837) posted at 12:46 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014

A 25 year old slut who worked at a big retail chain in the mall. Tried to get pregnant by my stbxwh. And tried to slap a restraining order on me.

Me- BS 44 Always faithfull
Him- WS 44
2 mo. EA/PA with 25 yr. old slut that stroked his ego, OL profiles, CL ads
Married 8 years-No kids together
DDay-11/21/12...and many more
False R 2 LONG years
Time is a thief when your undecided

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LolaJean ( new member #42669) posted at 3:49 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014

OW #1: vet assistant (30 year old recently divorced who ended up sleeping with 7 of our neighbors. The biggest pain in my ass. She tried to do all sorts of things to steal him away from me, and turn our friends against me. Things have turned out nicely now that she is almost completely out of the picture.)

OW #2: admin assistant, 30's single mother of a teenage daughter

OW #3: works for a magazine, also party promoter (apparently is a "pornstar")

OW #4: esthetician, bartender

OW #6-7: cosmetology students, servers

OW #8-20+ that I know of: friends of friends who showed up at parties, all just have restaurant jobs that support their partying

- most one night stands that continued into sexting, dirty pictures and a couple more nights randomly when I was traveling

They all had one thing in common: they fell for his BS smooth talking and his promises. He met most of his whores at bars or parties. He's a complete dreamer and paints a really pretty picture, especially after a couple cocktails.

AP are all sorts of people but its clear they are all their own sort of fucked up. It takes a special kind of person to be intimate or communicate this way with a person they know is in a committed relationship.

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