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isadora ( member #29130) posted at 6:46 PM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011
Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 1:48 AM on Sunday, April 24th, 2011
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
annb ( member #22386) posted at 4:06 AM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2011
browniegirl ( member #31985) posted at 7:54 AM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2011
I'm trying to understand why everyone is writing bump in their posts on this thread? Does this actually send a message on to someone who needs to read it/ Just curious as I am new here. Also I've seen the abbreviation TT and I don't know what that means as it isn't on the abbreviation page. So hard to read posts with abbreviations, but I'm new here and just learning. JavaScript:AddSmily('%20
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Browniegirl
BW- Me 41
WH- 42 (Striker9)
Years together- 18
Years married- 14
D-Day 2-11-11 plus TT thru 5-11
1 11 YO DS
Trying to Reconcile
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 2:29 AM on Saturday, April 30th, 2011
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 5:50 PM on Saturday, May 7th, 2011
Rise_Above ( member #23674) posted at 2:52 AM on Sunday, May 15th, 2011
You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli
*****
God's hand was an avocado branch
nooneeverthought ( member #20157) posted at 11:10 PM on Wednesday, May 25th, 2011
it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 7:15 AM on Saturday, May 28th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
Rise_Above ( member #23674) posted at 6:47 AM on Monday, June 6th, 2011
You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli
*****
God's hand was an avocado branch
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 3:33 AM on Tuesday, June 14th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 2:39 PM on Wednesday, June 15th, 2011
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 4:07 AM on Thursday, June 16th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
SuspiciousWife ( member #18108) posted at 4:48 AM on Saturday, June 18th, 2011
Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 7:07 AM on Thursday, June 23rd, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 2:16 PM on Monday, June 27th, 2011
BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
hathnofury ( member #32550) posted at 10:54 PM on Monday, June 27th, 2011
The 180 is something i still struggle to fully understand. Posting here so i can keep referring to it. Your posts are always so insightful and invaluable to me. Thanks.
BS 43, SAWH 38. M 15years, together 17. Body count in the triple digits. Both in recovery, trying to R.
Three kids under age 11.
Rise_Above ( member #23674) posted at 10:05 PM on Thursday, June 30th, 2011
You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli
*****
God's hand was an avocado branch
september7 ( member #29929) posted at 1:08 AM on Saturday, July 2nd, 2011
Bump!
I read this often! Keeps me on the 'right' track to heal my soul.
D-Day September 7, 2010 NC ended December 22, 2010 and I kicked him OUT! WH dumps OW July 2, 2011 and wants to R! Now he has been living with me and on best behavior since then!
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 11:11 PM on Saturday, July 2nd, 2011
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