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inmisery1 ( member #30905) posted at 8:38 AM on Friday, January 21st, 2011
The OW in my case is a karoake hostess in a bar, I did a little internet search. Turns out, here in Japan karoake bars are fronts for prostition. My H tells me she told him she is 42, but he saw her immigration card and she is actually 48, also she is a grandmother. I've seen her picture(found his email, she sent him pictures) I expected to see this beautiful asian woman, instead she is unattractive woman with an abnormally large head ( a lot bigger than my husbands) so basically my h chose to jeapordize our 25 year relationship with an ugly hooker with a short shelf and a big head
hurttothebone ( member #30767) posted at 5:55 PM on Saturday, January 22nd, 2011
so many people out there hurting. Seems like at least 2 out of 3 people I know have been through this. WOW. Bump.
hurttothebone ( member #30767) posted at 1:46 AM on Tuesday, January 25th, 2011
This is a good read for newbies. Bump.
Faith2011 ( member #30946) posted at 2:14 AM on Tuesday, January 25th, 2011
My WH had the audacity to brightly ask me what I thought of his skank from her pic on FB?! 
I muttered "nothing special". She is no more attractive than me except she's slimmer. But for what's inside? Honey she's low enough to go for a man who is in a relationship, she's CHEATING on her husband, therefore she's a liar, a cheat and a user.
BS me
XNPDWH him
DDay Jan 2011
"Live the best life possible."
Rise And Shine ( member #27513) posted at 2:29 AM on Tuesday, January 25th, 2011
she is unattractive woman with an abnormally large head ( a lot bigger than my husbands)
boudicca ( member #30136) posted at 9:09 PM on Thursday, January 27th, 2011
bfmvalentine ( member #30358) posted at 9:30 PM on Thursday, January 27th, 2011
Thanks for this motivation today, my self esteem is hurtin at the moment. I can take solace in the fact though that from his pictures, my WW's OM very closely resembles the characted Sloth from the movie the Goonies
Me BS 38
WW 35
DDAY 8/9/10
Married 7 years
1 5yr old special needs son
girlsbird ( member #30877) posted at 9:35 PM on Thursday, January 27th, 2011
Your not kidding. I got to find out what "IT" looked like from a Department of Corrections photo..Very flattering.
D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed
tryingtosmile ( member #30979) posted at 11:39 PM on Thursday, January 27th, 2011
This is awesome. Thank you xoxo
B/S Me 37
W/S Him 37
OW Former Coworker OC born 5/11
4 DS 18,17,11,6 months
gunnisonbrown ( member #30115) posted at 8:14 PM on Friday, February 4th, 2011
bumpity bump!!! 
ME - BS - 46
WH - 51
Together 28 years, married 25 years
Two teenage sons
D-Day #1 - 10/29/10
IntuitionKnows ( member #30505) posted at 4:09 AM on Saturday, February 5th, 2011
Bump cause too many new folks these last couple of days
The affair wasn't the worst...
velveteer ( member #30997) posted at 3:57 PM on Saturday, February 5th, 2011
I LOVE this - it really speaks to my situation and is very helpful to me today
TryingMyHardest ( member #27168) posted at 6:37 PM on Saturday, February 5th, 2011
I think about this all the time. You can find my posts in here from a year ago or so.
OM #1: Patient transporter in the hospital, a friend of mine did that as a volunteer in high school
OM#2: Fat guy, old high school boyfriend, unemployed, no college
OM#3: Who knows? Nothing's come out of the woodwork yet.
This guy? Good lookin', good money, gradate school, excellent father, excellent cook.
If WS married you, you're probably the best they could find. So they're not gonna top you.
Married 2006
2 kids, 4yo
D-Day 1: December 30th 2009
D-Day 2: 2/1/11
D-day 3: 2/13/11
D-Day 4: 3/28/11
WW Drug addict for 2 years, Morphine, Fentanyl, Xanax, clean since June '09
5 OM, about 20 seperate sexual encounters
phoenix_vs ( member #29193) posted at 10:37 PM on Sunday, February 6th, 2011
So, I read this every time it gets bumped, and it made me feel a little better, and then it hit me:
What's wrong with us?
We're not ugly enough![/bold
[This message edited by phoenix_vs at 4:39 PM, February 6th (Sunday)]
I'm not sad that you lied to me. I'm sad that I can never believe you again.
Well, I'm sad that you lied to me, too.
IntuitionKnows ( member #30505) posted at 3:53 PM on Friday, February 11th, 2011
Bumped because this helped me through so much!
The affair wasn't the worst...
surprisedfool ( member #24266) posted at 4:32 PM on Friday, February 11th, 2011
OM#1 - old boyfriend, hate him but can understand attraction
OM#2 dirty old man in all its meanings. Could only perform some of the time. Really!!!
OM#3 wtf???? just a piece of trash that is falling apart.
OM#4 expect it to be equal to roadkill.
I guess I should feel better that WW affaired down but instead it just sickens me. How could I have been married to that?
me: BH 40ish
her: WW 40ish
married 20+ years
"love is a four letter word"
Ms_Strong ( member #30883) posted at 5:01 PM on Friday, February 11th, 2011
Me: 40, happily divorced Dec11
D-Day #1 - 9th Jan 11, D-Day #2 - 13th Jan 11
Kids - 4, 8 yrs
deathbybetrayal (original poster member #22478) posted at 3:16 AM on Saturday, February 12th, 2011
Married 10 years at DDay
Me: 53 Him: 52 - Desperately trying to unfuck the donkey.
DDay: July 16, 2008
FWH Epiphany: Aug.23, 2008 NC: Aug. 28, 2008
IntuitionKnows ( member #30505) posted at 3:20 AM on Saturday, February 12th, 2011
SurprisedFool,
I totally hear what you are saying and I can feel that she really hurt you.
I haven't read ALL the responses, but I'm wondering if this may be a male /female diff. It seems that the BW's identify more with with the post.
I'm wondering how the bh experince is different in dealing with the choice of OP.
The affair wasn't the worst...
hissadwife ( member #14982) posted at 3:37 AM on Saturday, February 12th, 2011
My WH had the audacity to brightly ask me what I thought of his skank from her pic on FB?!
Oh my God, Faith! If FWH said that to me they'd be the last words he spoke through his own teeth.
Does this wedding ring make my dick look big?
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