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goodbye_virginia ( member #16321) posted at 11:17 PM on Monday, December 23rd, 2013
Oh my. Such awesome news! Congratulations!
Me- BW 38
Him - WH 46 alcoholic
We are attempting R but I still doubt it all sometimes
Divorced as of 09/2018
sunsetslost ( member #39885) posted at 11:23 PM on Monday, December 23rd, 2013
Sending all I got your way.
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 11:25 PM on Monday, December 23rd, 2013
Very happy for your news, PA5. 
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 11:42 PM on Monday, December 23rd, 2013
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
PanicAttack53 (original poster member #34195) posted at 11:49 PM on Monday, December 23rd, 2013
Thanks again everyone. The next step in all this will be much easier to handle now that I know what I'm *not* dealing with. After the new year (probably) my oncologist will schedule surgery to excise the tumor area, do a node biopsy under my arm and possibly put me on a cocktail of meds (Interferon etc..) All of this I can handle because I now have the biggest piece of the puzzle solved in getting the negative Pet scan results.
OK, really late now and heading out to party. Talk to you all again real soon!
[This message edited by PanicAttack53 at 5:50 PM, December 23rd (Monday)]
Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 59 on D-day (11/17/11) | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:11 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
That's GREAT!
I'm still in your corner WRT removing the initial melanoma.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
JustDone ( member #9742) posted at 12:17 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
Whew! Such good news!!! 
Madhatter
Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 2:39 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
What wonderful news and a great Christmas present for you!
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
risingfromashes ( member #3903) posted at 3:05 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
jjsr ( member #34353) posted at 3:14 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
Sending you good thoughts
Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA and 10/28/15 NEW dday.
Just surviving.
Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 3:40 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
Great update, more mojo headed your way.
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 3:48 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
That's fantastic news! More mojo and prayers for a smooth next few steps.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 3:57 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
Wonderful news! I'm so happy for you. Sending you continued positive mojo for your future surgery, healing, and health.
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 4:05 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?
teacheribe ( member #10376) posted at 4:14 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
MOJO on the way to you. Prayers too!
BS me 53
FWH 57
Married for 32 years
Live for today.
Crushed1 ( member #6449) posted at 5:38 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
So glad to hear that good news! And I hope you enjoyed your evening out! Best wishes Panic!
~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 8:32 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
Awesome update ((((PA)))), I'm so happy for you!!
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
cass ( member #24261) posted at 12:02 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 1:24 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013
I am SO very happy for you! That's great news!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 12:00 AM on Thursday, December 26th, 2013
Ah, that news was a great Christmas present! I hope you had a lovely day.
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