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IGM4L ( member #57556) posted at 8:56 PM on Sunday, September 16th, 2018
Absolutely not nor is it acceptable for them to be still be working together or having any kind of contact whatsoever. Not for reconciliation to have any kind of chance. It sounds like he is basically trying to carry on the affair in your face under the continued bull-sh*t excuse of "but we're just friends, nothing's going on."
I'm so sorry that you are going through this. Sending you strength and encouraging you to read the healing library regarding no contact.
Me- BS, 37 at the timeHim- WS, 38 at the timeEA/PA:Aug-Sept 2015, d-days:Sept-Oct 2015, TT to present. Double Betrayal- AP was my BFF/MCOW.Working on recovery and toward Reconciliation.
hikingout ( member #59504) posted at 9:22 PM on Sunday, September 16th, 2018
I didn’t bother read all the responses, I am sure you got the no chorus . I am a ww. The answer is most definitely hell no. The A will continue without a doubt in my mind. Inform other spouse, your h needs to find a new job, and no contact must be established. Now. Accept no other answer and if no agreement, leave.
8 years of hard work - WS and BS - Reconciled
RNT1 ( member #62158) posted at 9:33 PM on Sunday, September 16th, 2018
Impossible and dilusional. No.
ME. BS.
HER. WW.
DDAY1. 12/18/17 I knew by instinct.TT for months.
DDAY2. 03/01/18 She kept communication with him.
DDAY3. 09/05/18 She unblocked him from facebook and tells me she still desires him.
Reconciliation, imo, is impossible and over.
RNT1 ( member #62158) posted at 9:36 PM on Sunday, September 16th, 2018
Impossible and dilusional. No.
ME. BS.
HER. WW.
DDAY1. 12/18/17 I knew by instinct.TT for months.
DDAY2. 03/01/18 She kept communication with him.
DDAY3. 09/05/18 She unblocked him from facebook and tells me she still desires him.
Reconciliation, imo, is impossible and over.
Bestthing ( member #64028) posted at 2:41 AM on Monday, September 17th, 2018
Your H basically just asked you for permission to continue the affair. If she is so important to him, you should bow out. He should be looking for another job, not celebrating this bitch’s birthday. Delusional!
Bestthing
Happily reconciled
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