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Divorce/Separation :
Kicked when you are down

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Marz ( member #60895) posted at 8:33 PM on Friday, May 8th, 2020

He’s wanting a free place in the storm.

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Marz ( member #60895) posted at 8:34 PM on Friday, May 8th, 2020

Let your boys do it. He’s not needed.

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HalfTime2017 ( member #64366) posted at 9:40 PM on Friday, May 8th, 2020

Tallgirl, C'mon. Listen to the gallery. We have been thru this.

You don't need him to do your grass. You can bet he'll want to guilt you and the boys will see it too. Daddy helped with the grass, now Mommy doesn't let him stay.

NC NC NC

Please listen for your own good.

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 Tallgirl (original poster member #64088) posted at 12:11 AM on Saturday, May 9th, 2020

Ok.

He didn’t come.

I responded with two word. Fine. (a warning sign) and Costco.

I will do it myself. And I will fix my closet doors, and door handles.

May how to’s be on YouTube.

Standing tall

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Carissima ( member #66330) posted at 1:15 AM on Saturday, May 9th, 2020

Is his name on the lease/mortgage? Can you legally stop him moving back in?

You need to get your separation/divorce agreement sorted out if this is in anyway an issue.

Edited to add: If he is on the lease the chances are he's not actually looking for anything else as he knows he's entitled to move back in.

[This message edited by Carissima at 7:18 PM, May 8th (Friday)]

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 Tallgirl (original poster member #64088) posted at 7:00 PM on Tuesday, May 19th, 2020

Yes. We own the house together. He hasn’t asked to come here.

Nor have I asked.

He knows it will be hard for me if he ends up coming back.

Standing tall

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 Tallgirl (original poster member #64088) posted at 1:03 AM on Thursday, July 9th, 2020

Update....

Got a good IC.

Stbxwh is NOT here

Communicate twice a month max. Not in person.

Selling the house. So soon there is no reason to talk.

Standing tall

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Bleu ( member #14243) posted at 5:04 AM on Thursday, July 9th, 2020

That is amazing news. One day, I hope to join you with so little communication.

BS (Me) - 42
WS (It) - 42

Coupled in 1998
DD#1 - 2002
DD#2 - 2003
Married in 2010
DD#3 - 2012
And many more . . .

Divorcing

Two gorgeous, funny and fun little kids

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99problems ( member #59373) posted at 2:13 PM on Thursday, July 9th, 2020

Good job. I will try to draw inspiration from your example

Got me a new forum name!<BR />Formerly Idiotmcstupid.<BR />I am divorced, so not as much of an idiot now- 4/15/21,

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