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Wayward Side :
My divorce because of my infidelities.

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Thumos ( member #69668) posted at 5:49 AM on Friday, August 7th, 2020

My wife finally admitted everything to me.

She told me that she never cheated on me, also when her parents weren't warm to the idea of her marrying me because of my race, she told them that she was the first woman that I had ever been with and that I would be a good husband and a great father.

So your wife whom you betrayed “admitted” that she’d been loyal to you thru the entire marriage and that she picked you over her family’s concerns and stood up for you bc she thought you would be a good husband and father?

What precisely did she “admit“? That she’s a good person with character and values you screwed over?

Is that about the size of it? you rightfully got taken to the cleaners after you betrayed a woman with integrity and heart and guts who was only ever loyal to you.

"True character is revealed in the choices a human being makes under pressure. The greater the pressure, the deeper the revelation, the truer the choice to the character's essential nature."

BH: 50, WW: 49 Wed: Feb.'96 DDAY1: 12.20.16 DDAY2: 12.23.19

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outofsorts ( member #70701) posted at 3:30 AM on Sunday, August 9th, 2020

I hope that you someday learn to start taking responsibility for your own actions and stop playing the victim of your own choices.

Me(BW): 40WH: 40 Married 7 years, together 20.
Dday 2/22/19 Reconciling

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keptmyword ( member #35526) posted at 10:26 PM on Monday, August 10th, 2020

This post can't possibly be real. No one is that big of a douche.

The post might indeed be fake, but let me assure you, people can be this big a douche and even bigger.

My XWW has this despicable and childish attitude towards me.

She has called me a POS among many other names.

Mind you, I never remotely wronged this woman, was faithful, respectful, kind, and caring throughout our marriage.

I never so much as once ever called her any derogatory name or term during our marriage - never.

As soon as she got caught, the floodgates opened and she called me just about everything you can think of.

All of it completely, utterly unwarranted and just wildly disrespectful.

She just projects outwardly to me what she inwardly thinks of herself.

Just like this childish man is doing to the woman he betrayed.

It has nothing to do with you.

Filed for and proceeded with divorce.

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