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Breezy150 ( member #42421) posted at 6:11 PM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014
Beautifully written and absolutely something that gives us newbies hope.
I am so disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually start on fire.
BS me 41
WH 42 his whore was my friend
Married 24 years
Finally finding R?
3 kids 3 grand kids
DDay 1 -Jan 2 2014
DDay 2 -Feb 20 2014 A went underground fo
beautytoashes5 ( member #41900) posted at 12:51 AM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
Thanks! It's perfect. I know in the back of my mind I will be stronger than ever before.
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 4:20 AM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
Bumpin'. 
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
My_Name_Is_Alice ( member #34646) posted at 5:36 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Isn't it amazing how sometimes you're led directly to the post you need? I hardly ever read in JFO because the raw emotions are just too much for me to handle at this point in my healing. But today I did, and I found this post.
I really needed to be reminded that I'm going to be OK. I have no idea right now what will become of my M, but I need to stop worrying about that for a bit. I need to find my new path in this life. I might have been broken, but I'm not dead. I'm here, and I will be OK.
Thank you so much, Jrazz!! You're a very strong person, and you give hope to a lot of us out here.
Me: BW (42)
Him: WH (42) (MyNameIsDoug)
Married in 2004, living together since 2003
1 son, 8 years old
DDay: ONS on 10/23/2010
Oh yeah, life goes on long after the thrill of living is gone.
4everfaithful83 ( member #41761) posted at 12:36 AM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014
beautifully written!! BUMP!
Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...
ME: 36
1 doggie
DDay: June 24th, 2013
DDay 2 : August 22nd,2017
Left him August 26th, 2017
veronique12 ( member #42185) posted at 1:49 AM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014
Thank you, Jrazz. Beautiful.
BW, D-Day: 11/29/13 (4 month EA discovered); 12/19/13 (discovered was also PA); TT thru 2/14
Married: 2001; Together for 20 years
2 beautiful young kids
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 8:01 PM on Thursday, March 13th, 2014
I'm so glad this is helpful. 
Believe me, I have my share of panic moments (days) and weakness. Keeping close to me the thought that the bigger picture is going to be ok, and what I'm experiencing in the moment is temporary, really helps me get that peace back.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Angeles85 ( member #42107) posted at 9:11 PM on Thursday, March 13th, 2014
Thank u so much...you made me cry, well written. Thanks again
libertyrocks ( member #38924) posted at 9:17 PM on Thursday, March 13th, 2014
That was an awesome post Jrazz!!!! You're so, so right!!!! I NEVER thought I would feel good again. I literally thought I was going to die of pain in my heart and soul lying on a bed with runny mascara and two little boys by my side.... Now, I know I am happier, stronger, and more confident than ever. Thanks to the help of SI friends (Nature Girl, Aj's mom, Pink Jeep Lady, tushnurse!) I'm so happy to finally be S. It's unbelievable what hell I allowed myself to live in.
[This message edited by libertyrocks at 3:19 PM, March 13th (Thursday)]
Me-37 Ws-37
2 kids
Dday Nov 2012, TT for a year.
Reconciling for the third time in 4 years.
yme32313 ( member #42091) posted at 9:25 PM on Thursday, March 13th, 2014
I'm trying to take this day by day. You're just hurt and believe that it would have never happen to you.
It's hard when you first find out and it does it get easier but you still relive it from time to time. I'm still in the early stage and I agree it sucks!!
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 9:30 PM on Thursday, March 13th, 2014
(((yme32313)))
I do not envy anyone in the early stages. Just know that we were all there in one way or another, and the roller coaster does slow down.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
yme32313 ( member #42091) posted at 10:33 PM on Thursday, March 13th, 2014
This is something that I wouldn't want to wish on my worst enemy. A broken heart is still a broken heart.
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 12:00 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
Having a good day today. But I'm going to refer back to this when those not so often moments now of not having a good day come upon me!
Thanks for all the help....past, present, and future!
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
Flourgirl ( member #40937) posted at 2:42 AM on Saturday, March 15th, 2014
Thank you Jrazz! When I found this site I literally googled how to survive infidelity. I felt like I could die at any moment. The threads I read gave me hope for MY future not my marriage. I am still married sometimes its great and I see a future and others well I take minute by minute. I am so grateful for this post and countless others that you have put up. Thank you for your encouragement and advice. I don't know where I would be without my SI friends. To all who read this you understand me like no one can. You are the thread that has held my sanity together. I am going to keep reading and posting maybe someday I will be able to do for others what you have done for me.
BS me 39
WH him 40
Dd 7/1/13. TT 7/22/13
SAHM with 4 wonderful kids
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 4:49 AM on Sunday, March 16th, 2014
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 8:31 PM on Tuesday, March 25th, 2014
Bumping for justme1264 (and anyone else who needs it.)
Big huge hugs to you all today.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
justme1264 ( member #42890) posted at 8:45 PM on Tuesday, March 25th, 2014
Thank you. I dont need to tell you how much your post has helped me, someone who is in the first few weeks of his deep, dark hole.
LeftOutintheCold ( member #42856) posted at 9:55 PM on Wednesday, March 26th, 2014
Thank you. Some days are so dark that I can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. This gives me hope.
Me - 43
WH - 41
Dday - 3/6/14
Married 5yrs, together 11yrs
Status - Divorce from the ass is in progress!
You can see more of my story on my blog here: http://thatcraftylunchlady.com/?p=833
"Never give up hope and let time heal you"
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 11:15 PM on Wednesday, March 26th, 2014
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 6:07 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Bump for my friends in JFO.
(This is easier than typing it all over again. 
)
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
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