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here's to us - holiday hangout thread

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GotPlayed ( member #41294) posted at 4:09 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

Heh, y'all making me feel like I should have bought some alcohol, "just in case".

It's ok. Surgical procedure recently means I can't drink anyway because of the stupid pills (thinking of that just now, which means I must be feeling better). :-)

Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
XBH and healing. D final March 2016
Her: Doesn't matter anymore.
DS13 Severe SN. DD11 Awesome

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gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 4:13 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

Welcome ItHappened.

69 cards!!! There is glitter everywhere.

This was great! Opening cards from SI, Posting on the bar thread in SI.What a great way to spend Chrstmas Eve.

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie

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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 4:17 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

Home from work; having my first eggnog with American Honey (Wild Turkey liquor)

Watch NL Christmas Vacation (what else?? "Could it be any hooter in here?"

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:18 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

I don't know how you waited this long to open them, ga, but if I could pull off that kind of self-restraint, it seems like a neat tradition.

Gotplayed - I'm glad you're feeling better. Recovery from surgery is job 1 for you, so it's a good thing you're minding the no alcohol rule.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:18 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

OH, I meant to ask Jpapa - is that baked Alaska? Whatever it is, it looks heavenly. Did you save me a piece?

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 4:22 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

NIK - Both last year and ths year is was so cray trying to get things done before hand that I just kept them on the counter. After the kids are gone and I got the whole house to myself I can really enjoy it without a million questions and other distractions.

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie

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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 4:28 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

Just popping in to say Merry Christmas to all ! I'm having hot chocolate with Buttershots, yummy. Chilling with my youngest DD, watching Kung Fu Panda 2. Supposed to get more snow overnight. Just had 31 inches over the weekend - I can wait a while for more but Mother Nature says otherwise. My snowbanks are as tall as me now. DS will be here tomorrow afternoon and we're having a nice turkey dinner.

Anyone dancing on the bar yet?

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 4:28 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

So I'm taping the cards to my island wall like I did last year. Tred's card has so much glitter on it that the tape won't stick. It just slid off.

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie

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GotPlayed ( member #41294) posted at 4:31 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

The cards sound like a great tradition. I'd love to be in it next year. Let me know what to do.

nowiknow23, thanks! It didn't kill me, so it's making me stronger.

[This message edited by GotPlayed at 10:32 PM, December 24th (Tuesday)]

Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
XBH and healing. D final March 2016
Her: Doesn't matter anymore.
DS13 Severe SN. DD11 Awesome

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Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 4:41 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

Back from volunteering at church. What an honor to hold two tiny children on my lap and also watch them dance and sing so mom and dad, grandma and grandpa can enjoy the services. Mom was so grateful....

Now, presents for my girls are wrapped. I won't see the girls until late tomorrow.

I am enjoying some red wine and opening my SI Christmas cards. I wish you could see the smile on my face!

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

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TrustedHer ( member #23328) posted at 4:50 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

GotPlayed, hang out in F&G and sometime around November, there will be a Christmas Card Exchange thread. It will give a link to the rules and procedures to participate. You sign up via PM, and then you send 40 I mean 50 I mean 60... Well, as many cards as people who sign up.

It's mostly anonymous. You share your address with SI Staff, and send your pile of cards to the home office of SI, and all the cards get sorted, labeled, and sent off to the right places. No one else has the screenname/address key.

It's a great thing they do and it really helps with the holiday spirit.

Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

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Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 5:01 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

Can someone please come by and grab the rest of the Baked Alaska, there are two slices left and I don't want them to go to waste.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

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gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 5:04 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

Well it's officially Christmas morning on the east coast. Merry Christmas Everyone!

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie

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Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 5:06 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

Whatever you do DO NOT open SI Christmas cards while sitting on your bed. Even when thinking ahead and having said cards on cookie sheet with a garbage can near by......

I and my bed are covered in glitter.....

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

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 inconnu (original poster member #24518) posted at 5:12 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

Merry, glittery, Christmas, y'all! This elf is heading to bed.

There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown

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gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 5:14 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

A few SI friends have found that out the hard way this year Chrysalis

ETA; Good night inconnu. Merry Christmas

[This message edited by gahurts at 11:15 PM, December 24th (Tuesday)]

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie

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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 5:22 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

I did that 2 years ago, Chrys. I went to work glittered-out for a week.

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

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Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 5:27 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

LOL

12 degrees out.. Shaking fitted sheet out on the deck before washing it. Ipad keyboard covered in glitter. Chrys and PJ's covered in glitter.

Chrys so happy. This was a good idea since i am alone tonight and tomorrow. Thanks friend, for all the joy!

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

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GotPlayed ( member #41294) posted at 5:55 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

Thanks TrustedHer!

It's awesome. I'll definitely do that next year.

12 degrees.. Eeeek! Sorry! I love California.

Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
XBH and healing. D final March 2016
Her: Doesn't matter anymore.
DS13 Severe SN. DD11 Awesome

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gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 5:56 AM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

Well it's time to call it a night. Enjoy it everyone.

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie

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