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EEJJ thanks for coming on here and giving us credit. I am glad you are advancing with your life. You deserved better than you got and you are going to reap the rewards of your courageous stand.

Life sucks sometimes. It's how we stand up for ourselves and the bombs that are thrown our way that makes the difference. You did that and I truly appreciate your coming back here and letting us know that we aren't forgotten. God's speed brother

eejj,

Western thank you so much. Great way to put it brother and you are correct. I hope many take a stand for themselves, thats what matters. Taking a stand and not putting up with the BS they try to put us through

I just updated my new beginnings brother, when you get a sec check that out. Didnt want to post it in JFO.

Howdy "Neighbor", so happy to see you here & still paying it forward. We must do lunch some day, I'm aging upwards now...68...so taking a chance how long I'll still be agile & able, hehe..let's just say it won't be this summer, this heat in AZ is a killer!

For all the newbies, you must read EEJJ's posts, along with those on his profile. Anytime you are feeling down & beatdown, this guy has probably the worst story of a wife turned demon in under 60 seconds...faster than Usain Bolt.

So happy to hear things are only getting better for you, I'll be delighted to read how things are going in your New Beginnings, haven't stopped there for a bit. Hugs & Blessings!

Thank you for this post, couldn't have said it any better

OLDTIMER97, well where have you been Mrs?

Yes, please let me know when. I will PM you. Thank you for everything.

PAT, thank you.

Bumping this post, as it's about to disappear. I know there are a number of newbies that could benefit from the wisdom EEJJ received & processed as he went through his hell called infidelity...in my memory as a member, his was one of the most horrendous I'd heard, if not the most. His story starts on the links provided in his profile.

To get to profiles, go to the first page of a post, top right, click on My Profile, then enter the name (EEJJ) of the person who you wish to search for.

I had hoped to post this closer to the holidays (a very bad season for us unfortunately), so expect to see it again maybe a bit sooner than normally reposted.

oldtimer, thank you and everyone else for your words. I couldnt be where im at now without many of you and your words! I just hope I can help the way many of you helped me!

Thank you so much for this post....Extremely Empowering and such truth....which really is all we need. Self care too....

Wanted to come and share/bump this for everyone especially the new members. I'm very sorry your here but also here to tell you that you are gonna be ok.

I remember exactly where I was and how it felt, this day! But now I look forward to these days and moments. These days to celebrate with my kids and family. The ones that helped me stand back up. My SI family that was there as well to uplift. Its very empowering to approach these days now, knowing that what happened. Is now just a memory. Life is good and things will get better. It may seem dark, but there is a shiny light at the end ! Make it shine bright all

Awesome post!

Bumped

Hello all, figured I would jump this one again. Been awhile since I been in here SI fam, I apologize for that. Life has just been so busy.

For the new ones here, you are at the right place.

This post is worthy of every accolade and cry for its rightful place amongst the pinned and must reads. I cried, I was uplifted, and dare I say came away a better person for reading it. Mad props to you!!!

how are things EEJJ ?

Outsideforme, thank you very much but it was something I had to do for the many that helped me so much here after my ordeal. I've made some great life long friends from here. I had to do something in return to help and also to show everyone they are at the right place and that things will be ok.

Western my friend, things have been good. Super busy these days. Was away from SI to long. I could not believe how much time had past. Things are still ongoing, but I've learned to push forward and ignore the ignorance. And yourself?

Outsideforme, thank you very much but it was something I had to do for the many that helped me so much here after my ordeal. I've made some great life long friends from here. I had to do something in return to help and also to show everyone they are at the right place and that things will be ok.

Western my friend, things have been good. Super busy these days. Was away from SI to long. I could not believe how much time had past. Things are still ongoing, but I've learned to push forward and ignore the ignorance. And yourself?

everything is good brother.

Glad you are ok and back with us

Can't ever forget about this special place.

For the new ones here. Sorry you are here but at the same time happy for you that you found this place! Read and post. Help is here.

Thank you EEJJ! I'm 2 months in from dd and have found everything that SI folks posted have turned out to be 100% true. The gaslighting, rugsweeping and tt even though I truly doubted their words applied to my situation. Right they were so I'm trusting you are correct too. Looking forward for this nightmare to end. Glad that there is hope to be found in the future.