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joannie ( member #42486) posted at 8:13 AM on Friday, January 29th, 2016
Hugs from overseas .that's it you are thought about with care.
me BS 57
Him WS 56
Married 37 years 2 sons 5 grandchildren
nme1 ( member #44360) posted at 11:03 AM on Friday, January 29th, 2016
Sweetie, I'm sorry. I get your rant, I really do. You are worth so much more than this.
(((((Hugs)))))
Me: BS
Him: WS
M 16 yrs 2 x DS
D-Day 6th March 2014
Furious1 ( member #42970) posted at 11:22 AM on Friday, January 29th, 2016
M, there is no way to make sense of nonsense. I'm sorry that you are going through this.
BW (me): 46
2 adult kids
D-day: 10/4/13.
Divorced
HouseOfPlane ( member #45739) posted at 11:49 AM on Friday, January 29th, 2016
Furious wrote:
M, there is no way to make sense of nonsense
Sorry M. I immediately thought of this fable when I saw just the thread title...
A scorpion asks a frog to carry it across a river. The frog hesitates, afraid of being stung, but the scorpion argues that if it did so, they would both drown. Considering this, the frog agrees, but midway across the river the scorpion does indeed sting the frog, dooming them both. When the frog asks the scorpion why, the scorpion replies that it was in its nature to do so.
[This message edited by HouseOfPlane at 5:50 AM, January 29th (Friday)]
DDay 1986: R'd, it was hard, hard work.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" ― Mary Oliver
Survivor38 ( member #50920) posted at 3:57 PM on Friday, January 29th, 2016
You don't deserve this. I am so very sorry you are having to deal with this.
Me: BW
Him: WH
Married 15 years (when found out)
Kids: ds 12, dd 8
DDay 11/6/15
pennyx ( member #46383) posted at 4:25 PM on Friday, January 29th, 2016
How completely awful. That is a debilitating discovery. She is just so screwed up. Reading that gave me that terrible feeling in the pit of my stomach.
I hope you can find the strength to take care of yourself and your son.
One step at a time.
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock. unknown
mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 4:29 PM on Friday, January 29th, 2016
How's it going today Minnesota?
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 1/2 years/Together 37 years/4 kids together, and 2 grandbabies; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
numb&dumb ( member #28542) posted at 8:00 PM on Friday, January 29th, 2016
Man that sucks. I am so sorry.
Be kind to yourself. Go see your doctor. They have seen it before and can offer ways to help.
I think it is best to insulate yourself from further pain. You know what to do from there.
Just sorry man. I know this hurts.
FWIW- Rant on. Not anything we all haven't though ourselves about out situations either.
Dday 8/31/11. EA/PA. Lied to for 3 years.
Bring it, life. I am ready for you.
MadOldBat ( member #44146) posted at 8:14 PM on Friday, January 29th, 2016
Hell MN, I'm so angry with your WW on you and your son's behalf.
Sending you strength and peace.
MOB
Keeping my chin(s) up whilst getting divorced.
UQer ( member #48525) posted at 12:38 AM on Saturday, January 30th, 2016
There are days like these where I wish we could all live a little closer and give each other a big hug. I'm so sorry...you don't deserve this. You deserve so so much better. I hope there are better times ahead.
still-living ( member #30434) posted at 12:56 AM on Saturday, January 30th, 2016
And now it becomes very clear. She is using you and doesn't respect you. She's not even trying to reconcile. You are getting out, correct?
sc2ii ( member #49015) posted at 1:53 AM on Saturday, January 30th, 2016
I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm not sure how a WS could do it a second time after being given a second chance and after seeing the devastation this causes.
Make sure you are taking care of yourself and your child. I hope your MC was able to help you.
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and wishing you the best of luck!
Me: FWH (49)
Her: BS (40)
bbyg98 ( member #51580) posted at 6:12 AM on Sunday, January 31st, 2016
I ripped off the bandaid and I am free at last! :) Thank god & SI😋
longtobecarefree ( member #48408) posted at 12:11 PM on Sunday, January 31st, 2016
So so sorry to read this M, thinking of you and sending you strength. You cannot make sense out of senseless. Hugs xxxxxxx
Me BW 49 Him WS 48
4 children
Together 15 years-thought he was my best friend
DD 01/15 Constant lies until 05/15
07/15 Another lie found out
Many more DD Days during that time
Massage parlours 25years
Many EAs via texts and calls
EA turned ON
longtobecarefree ( member #48408) posted at 12:11 PM on Sunday, January 31st, 2016
So so sorry to read this M, thinking of you and sending you strength. You cannot make sense out of senseless. Hugs xxxxxxx
Me BW 49 Him WS 48
4 children
Together 15 years-thought he was my best friend
DD 01/15 Constant lies until 05/15
07/15 Another lie found out
Many more DD Days during that time
Massage parlours 25years
Many EAs via texts and calls
EA turned ON
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