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Cooley2here ( member #62939) posted at 12:37 AM on Friday, March 1st, 2019
Broken, every cheater in the world has excuses. They are all a crock of s***. She cheats because she wants to. There is no other reason. That is what you have to keep in mind every time she contacts you. Ask yourself what she is getting out of this. Whatever it is it is not in your best interest. Do.not.trust.a.thing.she.says. Her action speak much louder.
When things go wrong, don’t go with them. Elvis
setecastronomy ( member #14398) posted at 4:34 AM on Friday, March 1st, 2019
Broken, every cheater in the world has excuses. They are all a crock of s***.
This bears repeating. Every f'ing time.
She's broken. Don't let her dump that shit on you.
Buster123 ( member #65551) posted at 4:48 AM on Friday, March 1st, 2019
I'm surprised you even listened, but anyway what was your response to her ? A good one would have been: "OK, is that your sorry ass excuse for banging another man? now get the hell out and don't come back !!!
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 12:24 PM on Saturday, March 2nd, 2019
How do you feel after speaking to her?
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
Brokenheart60 (original poster new member #69754) posted at 2:42 AM on Friday, March 8th, 2019
One response to me I believe ask the critical question,I was asked," how do you feel when she contacts me and talks?". To be truthful I have mixed feelings but more and more I see her as a liar and cheater who could never be trusted again. These feeling's of hurt and humiliation last a long time. Is it possible ( or even moral ) to hate someone you loved less than 4 months ago. I go through days where I feel strong only to lay here at night picturing the betrayal.
Jduff ( member #41988) posted at 12:27 PM on Friday, March 8th, 2019
The opposite of love is actually indifference. Hate is a normal response to what someone does to hurt you the way she hurt you, the way all of our partners have betrayed us. To hate is to still have "a feeling" of any kind toward her. My opinion, hate is a bad thing when it is converted directly into action.
Don't be hard on yourself for going through all your emotions toward her and your situation. These are the stages of your grieving process.
The grass is always greener.... where the dogs are shitting.
-Soundgarden
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