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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:50 PM on Wednesday, October 5th, 2016
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:11 AM on Friday, October 14th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:23 AM on Tuesday, October 25th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 2:55 AM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
bumping. The 180 saved my life. MY life.
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
Loukas ( member #47354) posted at 1:15 AM on Thursday, December 29th, 2016
Loukas ( member #47354) posted at 6:47 AM on Friday, December 30th, 2016
Trippd ( member #56128) posted at 3:12 AM on Saturday, December 31st, 2016
Me: BS; Him:XWF (jerkwad); DS: 4yo
Together 7 years; current in home separation.
Dday: 11/21/16; 3 yrs of cyber & phys hookups
Loukas ( member #47354) posted at 8:29 PM on Tuesday, January 3rd, 2017
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 7:31 AM on Friday, February 10th, 2017
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:43 PM on Saturday, February 18th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 1:13 PM on Friday, February 24th, 2017
Bump 
Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom
MadOldBat ( member #44146) posted at 10:07 AM on Monday, February 27th, 2017
The 180 is so hard, but is a lifesaver.
Bumping for those of us who need to remember that the 180 is to help us grow stronger.
Hugs to all.
MOB
Keeping my chin(s) up whilst getting divorced.
Pink86 ( new member #57649) posted at 7:41 AM on Wednesday, March 1st, 2017
I understand this concept makes sense. But if you live with your spouse does this mean you can still have physical contact. Example (hugs, kisses, sex) or when doing this I should avoid my spouse ?
MadOldBat ( member #44146) posted at 9:21 AM on Wednesday, March 1st, 2017
Hello, Welcome to SI Pink.
Here is a link to SerJr's simplified version of the 180.
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/text.forums.asp?tid598080
Perhaps you would like to start a thread and tell your own story?
It would help you to receive the support and advice that you need.
Have you read around the Healing Library? (Top left hand corner,
Yellow Box)
Strength to you.
MOB
Keeping my chin(s) up whilst getting divorced.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:16 PM on Friday, March 24th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:27 PM on Monday, April 3rd, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:53 PM on Tuesday, May 2nd, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
janewilliams ( new member #58546) posted at 1:44 PM on Tuesday, May 2nd, 2017
No soliciting.
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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:04 PM on Thursday, May 25th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 6:41 PM on Saturday, May 27th, 2017
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
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