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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:35 PM on Saturday, January 5th, 2019
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 8:26 AM on Sunday, February 3rd, 2019
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 7:04 PM on Saturday, February 16th, 2019
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
Cally1975 ( member #69755) posted at 9:54 PM on Tuesday, February 19th, 2019
Great post. I needed to read this
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 5:13 PM on Monday, March 18th, 2019
Bump for Mooney 
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 6:43 PM on Wednesday, April 10th, 2019
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 9:25 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2019
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 2:24 AM on Sunday, April 28th, 2019
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 2:52 PM on Friday, June 28th, 2019
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 2:23 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2019
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 3:03 PM on Tuesday, July 23rd, 2019
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 12:09 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2019
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:54 PM on Sunday, April 26th, 2020
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 4:20 PM on Tuesday, July 28th, 2020
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 9:06 PM on Friday, October 30th, 2020
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Apparition ( member #75755) posted at 12:48 AM on Tuesday, November 3rd, 2020
I was directed to this thread and I’m grateful. Good and practical advice, with or without a WS.
Me: BH
Her: WW (expert serial cheater)
Status: Divorcing
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