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wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 2:40 PM on Friday, June 1st, 2012
Quit blowing more holes in the boat before you start bailing water.
Darkbeast in wayward
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 3:17 AM on Saturday, June 2nd, 2012
OP in General. "Said too much":
I've been faithful to my wife except for the one occasion in which I wasn't.
NIK's response:
Oh. My. God. Did you READ what you wrote? Seriously, dude. You are hurting my head.
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 3:59 AM on Tuesday, June 5th, 2012
As long as nothing goes up in flames and he doesn't slide off me and hit the wall or the floor, I'm pretty happy with it
HFSSC on her choices for "lube".
Dying here 
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 1:33 PM on Tuesday, June 5th, 2012
I think indifference may be the opposite of love but compassion is the beginning of recovery. I feel compassion for my X for the things that he is suffering now. I don't reach out to tell him that. I don't offer to help in anyway. I just feel it.
-better4me in NB
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 10:07 PM on Tuesday, June 5th, 2012
Healing the marriage, in my opinion, must take a back seat to first healing the two people in the marriage. They can heal together, hopefully with the help of a MC who guides them, but if the marriage is "fixed" before the people in it are, it's still a broken marriage.
It's like a bicycle -- both tires need to be inflated, otherwise it's just a stationary object that cannot move forward.
Threnody responding to a post in Wayward. Great analogy.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 10:43 PM on Thursday, June 7th, 2012
Editing myself to not start something political because then I would need to mod myself and that's awkward.
Meta in OT
[This message edited by FaithFool at 4:44 PM, June 7th (Thursday)]
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 3:27 PM on Friday, June 8th, 2012
at the time her saying "I'm sorry" seemed more like an attempt at some spell she learned at Hogwart's than an apology.
YMMV
Aesir replying to a thread about "I love you"
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 9:50 PM on Tuesday, June 12th, 2012
My WS's response when he made a realization:
My username initials are WTF?
priceless...
Considering how full of "WTF's" some of my posts used to be, I got a serious 'kick' out of this.
[This message edited by gonnabe2016 at 3:51 PM, June 12th (Tuesday)]
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 9:37 PM on Saturday, June 16th, 2012
You really should be able to trust your husband, even in a whorehouse holding a stack of 50's and a half price coupon, otherwise there will always be some occasion where you have to guard him and act like a parole officer.
aesir, commenting on trust during a conversation in Wayward.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
m334455 ( member #26893) posted at 5:54 AM on Wednesday, June 20th, 2012
Just proving the theory of OW's first line of attack:
"I'm a gigantic slut! Love me!"
Jrazz on "Leann Rimes New Low" in General...
BW 38, 5 kids
Dday Dec. 2009
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 9:10 PM on Thursday, June 21st, 2012
...so I thought I'd just give all you Californians a warning.
If you see two middle-aged dumbasses--one a short, twatfaced, pubic-hair-headed thing with beady eyes and big pointy honker, and the other a medium-height, medium-build, medium-looking, soft, stoop-shouldered, pasty dude who uses the word "I" constantly--skipping into a chain restaurant in their matching marshmallow shirts farting rainbows... try not to be seated next to them. The babytalking will probably kill your appetite.
ImNellNow giving all of California a "heads-up" about her STBXWH's upcoming vacation with OW.
Dy. Ing.
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You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 12:59 AM on Monday, June 25th, 2012
Showing your pain to an unremorseful WS is like giving a Barbie to a 2-year-old. It will end up naked with the hair chopped off, maybe missing a limb or two.
Veritas posting in General about trying to get through to an unremorseful WS.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 9:15 PM on Monday, June 25th, 2012
When that happens I think it has something to do with the google ad thingy doing it's running thing.
Yes those are the technical terms.
Uranidiot's very technically accurate description of why SI slows down at a certain time every day.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 6:36 PM on Thursday, June 28th, 2012
monkey sex
-wonderingbull
I don't think the context even matters.
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 5:06 PM on Friday, June 29th, 2012
Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.
trumanshow in D/S.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 5:25 PM on Sunday, July 1st, 2012
acceptance is the burp after this huge shit sandwich banquet. no fun for sure, but better when it's over.
stretch13 in NB
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 2:16 PM on Tuesday, July 3rd, 2012
I swear, you will never lose your temper or take the bait again if you imagine him dressed as a big fairy, waving a sparkling wand, holding a bag of craft glitter, and telling your lawyer, "No. I do not wish to sprinkle you with Authority."
Thren, on not engaging with an NPD who claims the courts have no "authority" over him.
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 8:37 PM on Tuesday, July 10th, 2012
Texting is an ineffective method for communicating even the most basic thoughts. It's a relatively new and unreliable technology. It's asynchronous. The cave-man comparison would be playing Pictionary using henna and a rock while a sand-dial counts down the seconds until Fred Flintstone's pet dinosaur screeches the National Anthem.
Red Sox Nation on texting vs. calling in NB.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 5:20 AM on Thursday, July 12th, 2012
From Squiffle on NB regarding when to to make moves on a date. I thought of Moo when I read it 
Do you dance? Dancing is kind of like permissible foreplay.
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
dirk pitt ( member #22167) posted at 5:22 AM on Friday, July 13th, 2012
Yeah...but sometimes a good "Get the fuck out of there!" is warranted
DS was so right.
and funny
Me=BS
Her=WW (ilovemyhusband)
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