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Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 12:42 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2013
"One thing I've learned through all this...listen to your 'inner voice.' When one person (me) is listening to their inner voice and the other person (you) is still being controlled by guilt, fear and obligation, all this push-and-pull happens. Remember how good we were before? All the fun we used to have? That is who we really are as a couple. My inner voice early on said that you were a good guy. Then things started to fall apart. Now my inner voice is saying, this is not over, we are not over yet. I hope your inner voice is saying something similar about me??"
WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
plainpain (original poster member #40139) posted at 1:28 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2013
Wow, Spelljean! I would like to vomit on your behalf. 
I hate it when OPs consider themselves as 'couples' with our spouses.
Me: Believer, 40s
Him: Liar, 40s
Married 19 years
1 year EA/2 month PA/incidental infidelities I can't begin to process
OC born 2014
OW:21
In successful R. It only hurts now when it rains.
Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 2:29 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2013
I know. Her inner voice unfortunately didn't warn her he was a liar. Very scientific, that "inner voice".
WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
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