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toby ( member #10337) posted at 12:01 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
I haven't posted in a long time, but I've been following your threads from the beginning and wanted to wish good luck today!
million pieces ( member #27539) posted at 12:05 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Me - 52 D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later, Divorced 11/15/11!!!!
velveteer ( member #30997) posted at 12:09 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Freeme ( member #31946) posted at 12:12 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 12:16 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Sending you tons of strength and mojo, AD.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
cdagal ( member #38154) posted at 1:02 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
just a heads up.....if she is on benzos, is she drinking as well? If so, definitely have the psych eval ordered. I would go so far as to say that she shouldn't have the kids until she is off them. My XH was prescribed that shit, just about killed himself in a car accident while he "self-medicated", and then went through 2 hellish years of withdrawal. I'm convinced that it permanently altered his brain chemistry
There is no education like adversity - Disraeli
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 1:35 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 1:37 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:01 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Good luck, prayers of strength, and resolution headed your way.
Mojo, and fingers crossed too. 
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 2:22 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Good luck today!!! We are all in your corner 
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 2:54 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 3:01 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Go get 'em, Tiger!
Kick some butt today!
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 3:04 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Abbondad (original poster member #37898) posted at 3:20 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Divorced April Fool's Day 2014
Fear is the mind-killer.Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.I will face my fear.I will permit it to pass over me and through me.-Dune
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 3:23 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
(((((( AD)))))))))))
How are you doing?
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 3:23 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
April 1 will always be a red letter day. You are no fool Dad.
Congratulations!!!!
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 3:42 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
I. Am. Divorced.
Yay, you got there!
I hope you are doing ok now, onward to the next phase.
Take care of you and the kids.
((((AD))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 3:50 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Oh Hell AD come on. You can just post that and nothing else.
We have been cheering you on for over a year and a half.
We want to know what happened.
I am sure you have a bit of melancholy with this, but dude this is the first day of the rest of your life.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 3:50 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Yay!! It's done.
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 3:59 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
I'm sorry, but happy for you at the same time.
Nobody wins in a divorce.
k9
BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
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