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Reconciliation :
Recon vs divorce

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BluerThanBlue ( member #74855) posted at 2:28 PM on Saturday, May 22nd, 2021

If you’re not getting what you want out of the marriage or reconciliation, then get divorced. You have only been married for 2 years and half that time— between her 6 months of cheating and the 6 months of fall out— have been consumed by infidelity.

If you’re not willing to take that step then you need to try another strategy that doesn’t involve berating her and unloading on your stepson. Read up on the 180. Try retrouvaille. Do a trial separation.

You’re not helpless here.

BW, 40s

Divorced WH in 2015; now happily remarried

I edit my comments a lot for spelling, grammar, typos, etc.

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BluerThanBlue ( member #74855) posted at 2:43 PM on Saturday, May 22nd, 2021

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[This message edited by BluerThanBlue at 10:20 AM, May 22nd (Saturday)]

BW, 40s

Divorced WH in 2015; now happily remarried

I edit my comments a lot for spelling, grammar, typos, etc.

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