PearlyBaker (original poster member #69981) posted at 5:34 AM on Tuesday, March 3rd, 2026
I caught my husband in a lie over Christmas about hanging out with a female coworker. I confronted him about it and he claims nothing is going on. After a lot of fighting we have been sleeping separately, and I know he’s just waiting for it to blow over.
I also found some ED medicine in his coat pocket. Today 3 of the pills were missing. So I went into his phone and discovered him still texting his female coworker and it had a sexual connotation.
I’m convinced he’s sleeping with her. I don’t even want to confront him about it because it’s literally pointless. He will just lie and do what he wants. I can’t go anywhere. I’m stuck here, because I didn’t become financially independent and protect myself from this again. I just feel so dumb.
BackfromtheStorm ( member #86900) posted at 6:43 AM on Tuesday, March 3rd, 2026
It pains me you are bgoing through again Pearly.
First of all, seek about your independence, you are still young to achieve it and cut dependence from this guy.
He is taking you for granted. Well you are not, you are the prize not the reserve girl.
Show him how much he is mistaken
You are welcome to send me a PM if you think I can help you. I respond when I can.
