nothisfriend (original poster member #53171) posted at 3:40 AM on Wednesday, April 22nd, 2026
I’m sorry to say that C lost her battle with cancer. She always had such thoughtful and supportive things to say when she posted on these boards. I’m proud to say we knew each other in real life; when she heard what was going on in my life she sent me here and SI was a tremendous lifeline for me. We never talked about SI in person, it was our safe place. But I loved everything she wrote and could hear the words coming out of her mouth.
She was a smart woman, expressed such joy to be around people, and was deeply interested to talk with you and hear your thoughts.
She had so much more to give.
Me: BS 50 (at the time) Him: WH 53 (at the time) D-Day: 10/25/15 Married: 28 years. One son, age 18 (at the time)
D final 2016 REMARRIED to a marvelous guy on 4/22/23
BackfromtheStorm ( member #86900) posted at 9:19 AM on Wednesday, April 22nd, 2026
I am sorry you lost a good friend and a very nice person.
It hurts but she gave you something that will stay alive in you. And that’s a little bit of light.
Condolences
You are welcome to send me a PM if you think I can help you. I respond when I can.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 10:09 AM on Wednesday, April 22nd, 2026
I am so sorry to read this.
Her contributions to this site were spot on. Sharing the journey with us helped so many.
Prayers and condolences to her family. She will be missed.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
