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Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 9:01 PM on Thursday, May 10th, 2012
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 2:39 PM on Thursday, May 24th, 2012
Bump! 
BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 9:10 PM on Friday, June 8th, 2012
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 4:06 PM on Tuesday, June 19th, 2012
BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 8:33 PM on Monday, July 2nd, 2012
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 9:16 PM on Tuesday, July 31st, 2012
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 12:45 AM on Thursday, August 16th, 2012
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
blinders_off ( member #34109) posted at 2:56 AM on Wednesday, September 5th, 2012
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 8:56 AM on Saturday, September 8th, 2012
AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 1:03 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 2:26 AM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
Ascendant ( member #38303) posted at 4:37 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013
soconfusednow ( member #40078) posted at 5:42 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013
Bumpity-bump-bump
Happy you bumped this. I really needed to read this one. All though I didn't know that until I did.
D-Day January 2013
prior EA in the 90's
me 50's WH 50's
NC-several, last broken NC 7/2013 (?)
Married 30+ years, 2 kids
Want to believe it's over, but is it really? Will I ever trust again?
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 7:15 PM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
Simple ( member #18814) posted at 6:19 PM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022
Simple ( member #18814) posted at 10:06 PM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022
hard_yards ( member #23549) posted at 4:17 AM on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013
I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...
HurtButHopeful? ( member #25144) posted at 6:28 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley
Whattodo2012 ( new member #37773) posted at 8:17 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
Another good topic that I need to focus on. Rather than just get angry or irritated & expect the other person to know exactly what I need him to do.
What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
whereisshenow ( new member #41070) posted at 1:33 AM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2013
Bump from a very appreciative newbie.
Me: BS
Her: WS
Both in mid-40's. Together over 20 years.
Three kids all under 18 years old
D-Day: early September 2013
She is pursuing multiple relationships via online personal ads. Have not yet confronted her.
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