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metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 4:22 AM on Wednesday, November 26th, 2008
Everyone has justifications to do things they want to do, even when they know on some level they are wrong. 'I know I'm wrong BUT I have this really good reason' is the beginning of so many poor decisions. I just think we should remember when we talk about right and wrong that it doesn't just concern one situation, infidelity, but is actually an entire lifestyle and way of thinking that extends to all areas of our lives. We have all been through too much here to let ourselves down.
Quoted from Circe.
Excellent thoughts. 
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
ImGonnaMakeIt ( member #18277) posted at 6:08 PM on Wednesday, November 26th, 2008
If your man bits came in handy little bags that we could remove and feed to the dog like our turkey friends, life would be so much easier
Meta, on the F'ing Turkey Vent thread.
[This message edited by ImGonnaMakeIt at 12:10 PM, November 26th (Wednesday)]
BSO - 35
Together 5 yrs.
D-Day 1/6/12
Reconciling.
OC Born 11/2012
DD born 01/2014
I still love him but what I miss the most is the peace I felt loving him without the fear.
drowninginsorrow ( member #4545) posted at 3:20 PM on Friday, November 28th, 2008
...my family is so much more lovable after I've had valium
uu on her thread about who had alcohol or meds for thanksgiving with family
Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.- Matt Groening
"I've found the secret to life. I'm ok when everything is not ok"- Tori Amos lyrics
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 6:27 AM on Monday, December 1st, 2008
From Damncutekitty :
She probably thinks she's won the stupid American man lottery.
After my STBXWH left me and returned to OW in Thailand. It made me howl AHHHOOOO !!!! gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
WhiteWolfWinning ( member #12475) posted at 4:26 AM on Sunday, December 7th, 2008
And you wanted to reconcile... why?????
Unless she's Claudia Schiffer on Spanish fly, I see no reason.
Suspicious Mind after reading a BH's not very flattering observations on his WS's personality quirks.
Wolf
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God
Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens
Soldiersgirl ( member #8188) posted at 3:33 PM on Tuesday, December 9th, 2008
Dear Santa,
Due to previous bad experiences with a strange man emptying his sack in my wife's presence, I will be staying up all night on Christmas Eve/Morning to monitor things. I hope you understand and still bring me presents.
Signed,
A Wary Husband.[/qoute]
Used2beloved in the open letter part 2 thread. I'll never look at santa the same way
You can't buy love, but you can pay heavily for it. ~ Henny Youngman
No man was ever shot by his wife while doing the dishes. ~ Anon
It takes two to make a marriage a success and only one to make it a failure. ~ Herbert Samuel
usedup ( member #11701) posted at 6:07 PM on Wednesday, December 10th, 2008
neverendinghurt ( member #15859) posted at 6:36 PM on Wednesday, December 10th, 2008
"I was never leaving" "it was never about leaving" "I never planned to leave"...what am I supposed to make of that? is it like a major award for me? all it does is make me want to sandpaper his tongue and then glue it to the dogs ass
UU in her own vent thread
The life of every man is a diary in which he means to write one story, and writes another; and his humblest hour is when he compares the volume as it is with what he vowed to make it.
James M. Barrie
usedup ( member #11701) posted at 4:09 AM on Friday, December 12th, 2008
thanks NEH.
this is veritas in a thread in general about what if you never heal:
"Fucker didn't visit his kids today? What a dickhead. My poor children." instead of "Why can't my kids be in a 2-parent home? If only I had been smarter/prettier/better he could have been ignoring them at home!" There's no switch to turn your feelings on and off, but the more you choose to live a life authentic in the present, the more authentic your life will become.
I loved this 
gibbonsrose ( member #16280) posted at 5:22 AM on Saturday, December 13th, 2008
It’s official. Kidsbane has finally admitted she likes pink.
Kids post to Used_And_Abused, whose signature line reads “Glitter in the Air – Pink”:
BTW I like your signature line.....but don't tell anyone I said that.
Me - Befuckled
WH - Limber at limbo *sigh*
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 8:38 PM on Sunday, December 14th, 2008
She's being treated like an adult with no right to secrecy. And since her kind of secrets are abusive to you and cause you injury, she has no right to them. Secrecy is not privacy. Privacy is shutting the door when you go to the bathroom. Secrecy is taking a cell phone in there with you and text messaging your AP. They are not the same thing.
Lady V on the difference between secrecy and privacy
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 2:29 AM on Wednesday, December 17th, 2008
Regarding cheaters who congratulate & encourage themselves openly on the web,
Grace Under Fire says;
I suppose I shouldn't be surprised...even lepers had colonies.
love me or leave ( member #16937) posted at 5:29 AM on Wednesday, December 17th, 2008
You're better off with the batteries if you want a pain free warranty
Kidsbane response to this freaked me out thread.....
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=267925&HL=16937
kidsbane ( member #9650) posted at 3:36 PM on Wednesday, December 17th, 2008
Oh shnap! I've been found out! can't get anything by that Gibbons!
And thanks LUV's....I've never had a battery hurt me yet! I stand by my statement. 
We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. ~Japanese Proverb
itspjw ( member #21268) posted at 5:52 PM on Saturday, December 20th, 2008
"Why did they get to play but I had to pay"??
tracer in lostandafraid's All So Surreal - Just Some Thoughts....thread.
so, so true.
no, I can't take one more step towards you...cuz all that's waiting is regret...
there's just too much that time cannot erase
dday 9/11/08
And the more I know, the less I understand
Because of you...I am afraid...
willowiris ( member #5372) posted at 3:35 PM on Monday, December 22nd, 2008
After one exhausting negotiations session (where the ex stormed out with his auxiliary penis clamped to his ear pouring out his woes to Twat-Waffle), HIS attorney invited me and my attorney to stay for a drink.
Catwoman in Balancing Act's thread about using affair photos as leverage in her divorce.
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=268710
D-day 09/2004
Filed for divorce 9/2006
We accept the love we think we deserve. "The Perks of Being a Wallflower."
SerJR ( member #14993) posted at 3:13 AM on Wednesday, December 24th, 2008
I look like a transvestite right now. I have glitter all over my hot sweaty body.
Noclue... on opening a card from cheer.
Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.
SerJR ( member #14993) posted at 4:19 PM on Friday, December 26th, 2008
Her relationship with OM is NOT some new freak of nature, soul mates made in heaven, we ARE different DAMMIT, relationship. Her affair is the equivelent of a 7/11 Slurpee - Oh sure, you may mix your own flavors together, but guess what? It's still a damned Slurpee.
Tputer in JFO
Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.
WhiteWolfWinning ( member #12475) posted at 1:18 AM on Monday, December 29th, 2008
ADs aren't like Cinderella's fairy godmother. They don't turn pumpkins and rats and rags into a better life.
Suspicious Mind in a thread about antidepressants and how it is up to the individual to work toward healing.
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God
Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens
itspjw ( member #21268) posted at 4:29 AM on Friday, January 2nd, 2009
"there is NO way to purify his penis"
broken gal in weird sadness thread.
no, I can't take one more step towards you...cuz all that's waiting is regret...
there's just too much that time cannot erase
dday 9/11/08
And the more I know, the less I understand
Because of you...I am afraid...
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