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rvcurrit ( member #8105) posted at 6:52 AM on Monday, January 5th, 2009
You have to cover the beams? Damn. Well don't do that popcorny crap.
Lucky, trying to keep rvcurrit out of trouble in his building help thread!
If I had to do it all over again--
I'd do it with you, Samanatha!
I am Married to Samanatha and proud of it!
"Just because somebody doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they hav
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 2:41 PM on Wednesday, January 7th, 2009
The only OM feeling's you should worry about is how he feels at the end of a baseball bat.
Lonerider 
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 3:50 AM on Friday, January 9th, 2009
And now my youngest DD9 wisdom is revealed..the earth just farted!!
Amberly's report in the Earthquake thread.
cryingdaily ( member #7276) posted at 5:25 PM on Friday, January 9th, 2009
From Chria in response to my thread title Calling all hairless, buffed women....
Damn crying..you stole my mating call....
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 1:12 AM on Saturday, January 10th, 2009
Your H needs to make NC so clear, OW can read it in the reflection of her lawyers glasses when he explains the RO
Holly-Isis
[This message edited by jjct at 7:06 PM, January 11th (Sunday)]
itspjw ( member #21268) posted at 6:38 AM on Tuesday, January 13th, 2009
I have a feeling that if SO looks at me sideways when he gets home tonight his doodle is getting chopped off and put in a curry
smiley blue in my ramble-trust, mind movies, questions, love, happiness thread
no, I can't take one more step towards you...cuz all that's waiting is regret...
there's just too much that time cannot erase
dday 9/11/08
And the more I know, the less I understand
Because of you...I am afraid...
unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 7:52 PM on Tuesday, January 13th, 2009
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=272096&HL=22033
Bethany:
You and your husband are the stars of this play, the leading man and woman in the story of your life. It's a grand drama, filled with births and funerals and soccer practice and broken water heaters. The actress playing the role of The Other Woman said her two lines and exited the stage, just like the hundreds of other inconsequential characters who have moved in and out of your play for years. It's time for Act III now. Resume your duties as the leading lady of your own life. Fix your water heater, love your children, organize your spice cabinet, read a great novel, recycle. Get back to your life. Your audience is waiting.
11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.
itspjw ( member #21268) posted at 4:34 AM on Wednesday, January 14th, 2009
I don't like pain, it hurts me.
plesk3yl in prayin's remind me thread
eta: this one just might end up in my tagline...
[This message edited by itspjw at 10:35 PM, January 13th (Tuesday)]
no, I can't take one more step towards you...cuz all that's waiting is regret...
there's just too much that time cannot erase
dday 9/11/08
And the more I know, the less I understand
Because of you...I am afraid...
miadianna ( member #10516) posted at 1:57 AM on Saturday, January 17th, 2009
This guy is flying more red flags than China. Sheesh
Catwoman...giving her much appreciated point-of-view.
Me: BS 60Son: 34years oldDaughter: 32 years old Divorced 4/10/08XH passed away 6/24/16
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 8:21 PM on Wednesday, January 21st, 2009
You asked when you will "move on." It will happen when it happens. Not a moment sooner, and not a moment later. Healing from multiple d-days is a very long journey, and you can't rush the process. You'll reach the end of the journey when you reach it, and until then, it's no good beating yourself up for not jogging to the finish line fast enough. This isn't a timed race. You don't reach the end any faster by focusing on the positive or visualising puppies and rainbows.
If you find yourself wanting to think about the past, then that's exactly what you should do. Don't beat yourself up for it. Don't lable the urge as "obsessive." Just let it be. Accept the fact that as a man who has been lied to for years, it's natural to question your past. You would be crazy if you didn't do that.
Bethany in Reconciliation
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 9:57 PM on Friday, January 23rd, 2009
Prayn4Daylight responding to Kwash's thread about putting on her thong sideways in F/G
But the triangle is bigger in the front and if you turn it sideway , the ass strap is wrong .....
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
Ballzlady ( member #22339) posted at 4:55 AM on Monday, January 26th, 2009
I know that smirk. I've seen it before.
I get an overpowering urge to remove it with a can opener...
Sammie response to Clueless blond vent in general a few weeks back about the her WS. Absolutely HYSTERCIAL. CB is funny but this was priceless.. no offense CB...
[This message edited by Ballzlady at 10:56 PM, January 25th (Sunday)]
Just do IT. God has your back.
BS - me 41,WH-38,heartless twat-24
D-day 6/5/08
M-14yrs;filed for D 1/29/09
unfortunate baby girl due 6/09
Innocence Lost ( member #20787) posted at 3:07 PM on Monday, January 26th, 2009
Silence is the most powerful "fuck you" anyone can ever impart. It means "You are nothing to me".
Defiance in an NB thread today. It's something I definitely need to remember when it comes to maintaining NC with my X by ignoring his texts and calls.
From victim to victor is a choice.
scout (original poster member #3986) posted at 9:53 PM on Tuesday, January 27th, 2009
(In reply to NA's orgasmic food thread)
i have panini envy
~drowninginsorrow
Oh. my. side!!!
Facade ( member #17536) posted at 1:39 AM on Wednesday, January 28th, 2009
Silence is the most powerful "fuck you" anyone can ever impart. It means "You are nothing to me".
I read this today, too! Been quoting it all day. Thanks, Defiance!
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 6:18 PM on Wednesday, January 28th, 2009
Well hello there! Welcome to hope. And if by chance you have none.....we've got plenty to spare.
Kidsbane welcoming a new member
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
wishingitwasnt ( member #20380) posted at 5:08 AM on Thursday, January 29th, 2009
accept the good
ididntknow's sig
Just hits me. I don't always do that.
punky ( member #12233) posted at 1:36 AM on Saturday, January 31st, 2009
I don't think you're running from boredom, I think you're bored because you're still running.
The very wise DesertLotus...
ETA:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=275705&AP=21
[This message edited by punky at 7:37 PM, January 30th (Friday)]
13 years later...finally healed. Definitely survived and thrived and you can, too.
Ballzlady ( member #22339) posted at 8:24 AM on Saturday, January 31st, 2009
Cheezus Loves Me
Oh, Holy Hell, I'd forgotten that.
Cheezus Loves Me
This I know
Frito-Lay, they told me so!
To my heart this snack belongs
Even though they stretch my thongs!
I don't know what dark twisted part of my brain that originally crawled out of, but didja have to make it come back for a second visit?
KSA2 mod reminded of a finer moment in time ?!? in the "How long have you "really" been at S.I.????"
Making a third appearance as its DAMN FUNNY!!!
Just do IT. God has your back.
BS - me 41,WH-38,heartless twat-24
D-day 6/5/08
M-14yrs;filed for D 1/29/09
unfortunate baby girl due 6/09
Ballzlady ( member #22339) posted at 8:31 AM on Saturday, January 31st, 2009
Just do IT. God has your back.
BS - me 41,WH-38,heartless twat-24
D-day 6/5/08
M-14yrs;filed for D 1/29/09
unfortunate baby girl due 6/09
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