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jjct ( member #17484) posted at 2:40 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
My sitch was different, but not all that different, and in the end, these A’s all rhyme.
MoreWould
Laura28 ( member #28997) posted at 11:56 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
Bigger in General: is a vasectomy asking too much
I have to say that if my son-in-law cheated on my daughter I would probably snip him myself… with garden shears… right where his troublemaker attaches to his fun-sack
I'm still laughing. The mind movies. OMG!!!
Laura
Married 42yrs Me BW 68Yrs Him F?WH 70yrs OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted. Dday May 28 2010. OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years). OW2 2002(8yrs PA). OW3 2009(1Yr PA). Others?? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck 'em"
momoftana ( member #17383) posted at 1:30 PM on Friday, September 6th, 2013
Fool4adecade's replay to this question:
What do you do/how to you feel/how do you react when you see the OW?
I have to see her occasionally on the school run or in shops. I find it very difficult.
However, last Friday there was a real breakthrough at the HS football game. Once again, we find seats and OW decides to sit one row down and 5 feet to the left of us on the bleachers - next to the walkway. This time, however, my friends were with us to see their god children perform. God bless her, my BFF saw what was happening and stopped on her way up the stairs right behind OW and turned around and mooned me and started shaking her butt! (She had on leggings and a long blouse, no indecent exposure on school grounds!) My kids started saw and started playing "Can't Touch This" Bleacher music, and the band joined in! Well, I burst out laughing and and POINTING toward her! My WH looked over where I was pointing and bust out laughing. OW thought we were laughing at HER and everyone around us was laughing! OW turned beat red, burst out crying, got up and RAN amongst cat calls of WOO HOO SHAKE IT, BABY!! that weren't even at her. I guess OW's "all about her" attitude backfired this time.
Made me laugh so loud my boss came down the hall to find out what was so funny! Thanks for the great start to a Friday! 
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 4:51 PM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
I have this great new life because I took all the piles of shit that he handed me and pressure cooked the fuck out of it till I got diamonds.
- tesla
TheRealDeal ( member #39560) posted at 3:06 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
Never lose yourself while trying to hold on to someone who doesn't care about losing you.
credit to lieshurt signature
Me (BS): 47 him (Xws): 55
together 18 years
DDay1, DDay2, Dday 3: March - June 2013
Dday4 + June 2015 through January 2016
Status: done I called it quits 1-6-2016
The hardest part of letting go is realizing there wasn't much left to hold on to
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:26 PM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013
That man is a butter knife in the cutlery drawer of life.
Skan commenting on Tesla's erudite ex-shat.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 1:51 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
From Butterfly girl on whether someone should send their XWH a final letter...
I don't think he's worthy of your feelings anymore.. He doesn't deserve them..
And I think he would just use them against you anyway. It's like handing him the knife to stab you with..
Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 5:49 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013
Aesir...from a thread in General
True love conquering all and accepting both the good and the bad is not about suddenly discovering horrible things about your partner, it is about conquering the rough times together as a team.
Oh so true.....
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 1:02 PM on Monday, September 16th, 2013
Safeguard:
...disordered people can spot me, "Like A Lion Spots A Limp!"
Wow.
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 8:32 PM on Tuesday, September 17th, 2013
From DamncuteKitty in NB:
You could dangle a Ryan Gosling lookalike in front of me bearing wine and chocolate, but if I need to stuff a ball gag in his mouth to stop the stupid from coming out then there is just no point.
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
BrokenRoad ( member #15334) posted at 3:29 AM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
momoftana ( member #17383) posted at 1:26 PM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
JJCT in a response over in JFO forum. Was an aha moment for me.
When you live inside yourself, your dependence on external validation decreases to the point where your tolerance for fuckery vanishes.
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 6:05 PM on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013
I responded to his great email with, "Thank you for the email, but my kids tie me down needlessly. Good luck in your search."
Was I a bitch? I hope so.
Cmego being my hero in an OLD response.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 3:56 PM on Friday, October 4th, 2013
I asked again how many times do you really think you got her off. He says a few times. I mentioned again that was her job, and did he really believe he got her off?
He says yes, and why did I think he didn't get her off?
My reply: because I've had sex with you
from Hope2B - asking her H if he truly believed that he and his prostitute achieved simultaneous orgasms...
2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
TrustedHer ( member #23328) posted at 3:19 AM on Monday, October 7th, 2013
LadyQ, in D/S, in her post "On co-parenting with a lower muppet... "
A two-fer.
Started with:
Although I hate to insult puppets, this is the best way to describe x: all foam and feathers, and no substance.
and ended with:
Fuck him and the whore he rode in on!
Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 7:09 AM on Monday, October 7th, 2013
From a thread in JFO. Momoftana describes what true remorse should look like:
He should be standing on his head shitting nickles while whistling Dixie.
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 7:28 PM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
Really buddy? How's that 22 working out for you? But what do I know, perhaps the dust from my dying ovaries has clouded my judgement
Confused1829 about OLD in NB.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 12:48 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
The SI WS's that do the work are the unicorns in a vast sea of donkeys.
7yrsflushed
DixieD ( member #33457) posted at 5:08 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
Haven't read this, but in general, I could eat alphabet soup and shit better advice than Dr. Laura. So I'm going with "against".
Unfound's opinion on a book by Dr. Laura.
LadyQ ( member #32847) posted at 1:05 AM on Sunday, October 20th, 2013
Aw snap, Cuz! I made the quote thread!
I can't take credit for the moniker "lower Muppet", I read that in D/S, and jacked it. 
Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...
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