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Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 6:58 PM on Monday, February 3rd, 2014
Tearsoflove in D/S
You can bedazzle a sack of shit but the contents stay the same no matter how sparkly the sack is.
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 6:17 PM on Thursday, February 6th, 2014
Suckstobeme on a thread in D/S discussing the AP's looks.
Your ex didn't leave because he hooked a "sexy bitch.". That's nothing but a shallow bullshit excuse for the real reason, which is that he feels like shit about himself and needed some pig to boost his ego. He knew she would accept the deceptive, crappy parts of himself, while you, his wife, expected a good, decent, faithful man
.
Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.
Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 8:25 PM on Thursday, February 6th, 2014
littlefoggy in D/S
On the other hand, I HAVE to do this alone. Like a rite of passage. I am being sent into the woods nothing and told to kill a bear. And I have to emerge victorious. And kill a bear.
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 1:39 PM on Friday, February 7th, 2014
Normal people cannot understand crazy, and you will never wrap your head around it fully.
WOW!! This quote is from Phoenix1 in a thread in Divorce/Separation titled:
A thread for those with an unremorseful spouse.
[This message edited by homewrecked2011 at 7:40 AM, February 7th (Friday)]
Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55
BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 8:15 PM on Sunday, February 9th, 2014
Suckstobeme
On a D/S thread discussing Karma:
Oh, how I've come to love those small doses of karma that just keep on coming. Like I've said before, he hasn't gotten smashed yet, but he gets it regularly in small doses, like being pecked to death by a big slutty chicken.
Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 1:21 PM on Monday, February 10th, 2014
This is not your friends living room. We're not kicking it. This is the ER. There's been an accident, and your soul or marriage is at risk of death...and so the tone is urgent and frenzied, because the longer the injury goes untreated, the higher the risk of mortality.
FacePunched in the "Judgment in Replies" thread in Wayward.
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 2:41 AM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014
World's fastest, sweetest about-face. (Regarding tattoos in OT - courtesy of foundoutlater)
Not for me. For me it’s a permanent expression of a temporary feeling – not sure if I want to be reminded of that feeling in ten years. OK I just saw Chico’s - I’m probably just chicken.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Brandon808 ( member #35619) posted at 3:53 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2014
itainteasy's thoughts on Valentine's Day
I wish my fiance would give me bacon roses today. Fuck the real ones. I want bacon.
BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 9:00 PM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
SisterMilkshake in JFO thread:
Every time your WH starts acting this way imagine him with a diaper on and a binky in his mouth.
Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.
nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 4:27 PM on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014
"Cricket on, Dude."
Pass, in the thread on why crickets show strength in General.
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 12:16 AM on Thursday, February 20th, 2014
If I were doing things I hated doing without knowing why I did them I would want to address that.
Atsenaotie giving some good advice for a wayward.
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
Pass ( member #38122) posted at 5:49 PM on Monday, February 24th, 2014
I got really mad and told him that he no longer was in charge of me. Also, he wasn't giving me anything. I have worked for what I will get and was entitled to it. It was not something he would give me. If I were to charge him for each year of our marriage, he could never pay the bill he owes.
This is how Smashedat58 responded when her husband said he would "give her half of everything". I LOVE the strength of this response!
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 2:20 AM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014
If we let the anger devour us we become the uncaring, callous husband our WW convinced themselves were we in order to justify the A to begin with. In essence we become the villain they imagined.
DefiledRage
Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 2:16 AM on Monday, March 3rd, 2014
Allornothing in response to nekorbs post about ow looking better in a dress
I just tell myself that although OW thinks she's hot sh!t on a silver platter, she's really just a cold turd on a paper plate!
Love it. 
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 2:29 AM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014
He has said that he never felt loved by me.
Of course not! I didn't love him, I didn't know him. I loved who he was pretending to be...
cantaccept, whose new name is CAN!
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Lyonesse ( member #32943) posted at 3:03 PM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014
That comment your STBXWH made about getting every penny from you... Really? Like it's not enough to blow up you and your kids' lives? He should have the decency to just float away, like a turd in a river to hell.
Quote from RedWheelBarrow. Love this image!
mixedemotions ( member #35810) posted at 2:19 AM on Thursday, March 20th, 2014
Always remember that if it's a good man, he can't be stolen.
Phmh in NB
So true, and so what I needed to hear.
Me: Former BW, 28
Divorced 10/11/12
He didn't show up for the D...very fitting, seeing as he didn't show up for the M, either : )
"What did not demolish me simply polished me, now the clearer I can see" - India Arie
silverhopes ( member #32753) posted at 3:02 AM on Thursday, March 20th, 2014
I am no longer the cool wife and I make no bloody apologies for it. I don't care if I appear cray-cray or not. My way or the highway and, god help you if you step between me and my man and our boundaries. I will cray-cray your ass with a stiletto suppository.
Epic quote by Skan in response to SisterMilkshake's thread "Old Flirty Classmate, Cray Cray Jealous Wife, H.S. Reunion". 
Aut viam inveniam aut faciam.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 3:22 AM on Saturday, March 22nd, 2014
It really does take a village to raise a kid. And not the village idiot.
Kajem in D/S
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:58 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
I will never again be with someone who has the habit of having backup plans. They are the tadpoles of affair toads, no? No prince here.
SBB in NB.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
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