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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 12:03 AM on Monday, September 16th, 2013
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
Teach8 ( member #36521) posted at 2:51 PM on Sunday, September 22nd, 2013
Me: BW. Him: WH. Dday: 4/26/12. TT until 8/15/12 LTA 7 years. Trying to R
SurprisinglyOkay ( member #36684) posted at 12:03 PM on Friday, September 27th, 2013
Bump 
FWS me 38 (recovering addict)
BS him 41 AFrayedKnot
Together 10 years
2 children
"Your secrets keep you sick"
wincings_sparkle (original poster member #27129) posted at 11:33 PM on Monday, October 7th, 2013
"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."
- Catherine Ponder
Me-FWW. BH-wincing_at_light
BaxtersBFF ( member #26859) posted at 3:54 PM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013
Bump.
wincings_sparkle (original poster member #27129) posted at 1:42 AM on Monday, November 4th, 2013
"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."
- Catherine Ponder
Me-FWW. BH-wincing_at_light
Unagie ( member #37091) posted at 7:42 PM on Saturday, December 7th, 2013
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 3:39 PM on Monday, January 13th, 2014
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
Joanh ( member #39146) posted at 3:47 PM on Monday, January 13th, 2014
Thanks for the bump I just came to to post on the crap that just hit me. I was having a good morning in fact we both were and I went to do my nails and bam, the crap the guilt the sadness the loss the anger all of it just dropped back to the bottom.
I need to post this or tag it in a return to spot or in my journal. To remind myself .
Thank you , I will crawl out of that headspace and tie myself back in. and keep cleaning out the muck and maybe one day I can forgive myself.
Thank you for the bump.
BH 39
WW 43
D day November 9, 2012
3 children 22, 8, 6
Just....
Sparkle0504 ( member #40379) posted at 1:03 PM on Thursday, February 6th, 2014
Bump
Me 52 (BS) Him 60 (EXSAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011
I'm done. Separated.
Time is always right, to do right. (Dr Martin Luther King)
Prayingforhope ( member #41801) posted at 10:56 AM on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014
Big BUMP! I just read this because Hufi-Pufi recommended it and I am so glad I did. I am in this boat and I am bailing out the water with everything I got!!!
WH 41
BS 40
D-Day Oct 28th, 2013
Together 18 years
Three amazing boys 12, 9 & 6
Praying for hope daily
Shayna71 ( member #42105) posted at 2:16 PM on Thursday, February 20th, 2014
Had to post here so I can come back to it any time I want. Will be sharing this with my H as soon as I can.
Wonderfully Written!
Me: BW 46
Him: WH 43
3 month EA and PA w/a mutual friend
DDay 09/20/2013
Married over 20 years
DS 25, DS, 18 DD, 17 (On DDay)
Currently in R
Why Repentance Is Necessary? Because Undeserved Mercy Empowers Entitlement/Sin
Simple ( member #18814) posted at 12:27 AM on Friday, February 21st, 2014
I just read this, awesome analogy!
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022
beautytoashes5 ( member #41900) posted at 6:10 AM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014
Gave it to my WH to read. He loved it.
HotMessInTX ( new member #42417) posted at 12:30 AM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
Second time reading this.. one of the posts I read on here that has been the most helpful. Thank you!
time2grow ( member #35983) posted at 4:20 PM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
Good analogy! For those in R, I wish you the best.
4everfaithful83 ( member #41761) posted at 4:18 PM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014
Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...
ME: 36
1 doggie
DDay: June 24th, 2013
DDay 2 : August 22nd,2017
Left him August 26th, 2017
Lobo ( new member #42456) posted at 11:11 AM on Sunday, March 2nd, 2014
This is powerful stuff, thank you.
Imagine a world where the words you speak appear on your skin. Would you be more careful of what you say?
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 8:26 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
Bump
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
brokeback ( member #41726) posted at 8:29 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
Thank you, thank you. :)
Amazing.
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ME 43
BS 38
1 Child 3 years old
Married 18 years
DDay - 10/2013. EA 9 months. PA 4 months. Ended the affair 11/2014
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