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hexed ( member #19258) posted at 3:00 PM on Tuesday, October 19th, 2010
(((tcmm)))
i can't imagine!!
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
andyd1950 ( member #20018) posted at 5:44 PM on Tuesday, October 19th, 2010
I think your getting he best part of all this.
You get to be with your boys.
After they hear what's really going on, they won't want anything to do with their mom, which is really sad. But they will have YOU!
BS (me) - 61
fWW (her)- 57
Married 39 years March 17,2012
Forgiving, that's easy.
Trusting again, that's hard.
Forgetting, impossible!
"When you take things for granted, the things you are granted get taken away."~ RevRun.
MadhatterMama ( member #26953) posted at 1:17 AM on Wednesday, October 20th, 2010
Just let her keep digging her grave with that silver spoon. Sucks for her when she realizes what a *cheap* metal that silver really is. She is chasing an illusion.
As she is walking out to her van with her overnight bag, I'd be sure to tell her with a BIG ASS SMILE ON YOUR FACE:
"Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya, honey!!!"
"The sun never says to the earth,
'You owe me.'
Look what happens with a love like that.
It lights up the whole sky."
-Hafiz the Poet
You will never know how strong you really are until you have no options but to be strong...
tulipcitymadman (original poster member #28660) posted at 3:56 AM on Wednesday, October 20th, 2010
[This message edited by tulipcitymadman at 8:48 PM, October 20th (Wednesday)]
anhedonia ( member #27031) posted at 5:15 AM on Wednesday, October 20th, 2010
Does she not realize that her daughters will grow up to be young women and have the adult knowledge, maturity, and experience to put the pieces of the puzzle together?
Doesn't she realize the shock and sadness they'll feel when they realize their own mother is little better than a common whore?
She suffers from the unfortunate delusion that they'll always be her little girls, easy for her to lie to, easy to pull the wool over their eyes.
But they will remember! They'll remember all of the nights YOU cooked their dinners, read their bedtime stories, played games with them, comforted their fears, cheered them on in all of their efforts.
And they'll remember that mommy was absent, gone, undependable. And when they're older they'll realize mommy abandoned them to go to a trailer with an immature, lowlife man-child with his backwards baseball cap, earring and droopy slack-assed jeans.
And she'll never be able to rewrite that history. Children have long memories. And when your kids are grown, they'll know who the better parent was. No matter what type of bullshit she tries to feed them, they're smarter than that.
Someday she'll lose them for good. And she'll deserve it.
Cabrona ( member #9596) posted at 5:41 PM on Wednesday, October 20th, 2010
He can't help himself. You do know that dysbarism is cumulative? Nitrogen has been building up in his blood for years... Seriously. the guy must already be BENT, why in the world would he want to get you fired when he can't possibly afford to financially take care of your wife and kids himself? 
"The truth is, everybody is going to hurt you... you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for." —Bob Marley
wonderingbull ( member #14833) posted at 5:56 PM on Wednesday, October 20th, 2010
Glad to hear you're taking care of his shit with an attorney... He'll regret what ever he tries...
WB
The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...
James Taylor
latebloomer45 ( member #18021) posted at 8:05 PM on Thursday, October 21st, 2010
Based on the fact that he's deleted every one of 90 posts on this thread, I assume
TCMM is in a shit storm. You're in my prayers, man.
Me: BS 56
Him: FWS 58
Married 32 years
Son-26 Daughter (Who Came out as trans, so now Son)-23,
D-Day #1 12/11/2007
D-Day #2 5/23/2008 fucking trickle truth!
Whatever Threnody said, I concur.
tulipcitymadman (original poster member #28660) posted at 11:15 PM on Thursday, October 21st, 2010
It is time to deal with the threats, intimidation, & bullshit in a less public way. I need to engage my lawyers and let them do battle against those who wish to destroy me. PM me if you wish. Thanks to all for every post of support, and I will see you on the other side.
aliveagain ( member #25751) posted at 11:59 PM on Thursday, October 21st, 2010
TCMM you have your freedom to look forward to, just months away. She has a trailer park with a balding fat guy that has bad teeth and a case of the bends to look forward to. That should compensate her for loosing her family and friends. Stay strong, don't let the skank get to you, your almost free of her.
donovan ( new member #28369) posted at 5:16 AM on Tuesday, October 26th, 2010
Do whatever you need to do to keep yourself and family safe. We will see you on the other side. Please check in every now and then if it is safe for you to do so.
gulliblelass ( member #16089) posted at 1:59 PM on Tuesday, October 26th, 2010
TCMM, hope you and your children are ok and safe. Sad to see that you felt you had to delete all your posts and stay away for your own good.
Just wanted to let you know that we are all here for you and hope that you will come back soon and post us an update on your sitch.
Keep safe and keep smiling. Know that we are here for you.
Big hugs
WH 49
Me 44
3 beautiful children
Married 14 years together 17
DD1 03/06
DD2 06/07
In R and going well, hoping everyday that this is the last time otherwise I'm out of here
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