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tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 4:58 AM on Sunday, August 11th, 2013
22 months and counting... the next bus stop is NOWHERE in sight... and now I also want some peanut butter cups. 
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Compartmented ( member #29410) posted at 5:05 AM on Sunday, August 11th, 2013
I was thinking about the bus last night when a really OLD guy was hitting on me. He had trouble remembering what the name of the city is where one of his three houses is, and trouble walking down the steps. Uhhhh, NOPE! Still on the bus!!
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 8:42 PM on Sunday, August 11th, 2013
Hey bus! Been chillin' back here for 19 months. Gonna need a stop soon. Real soon. Sigh. Pass the PB cups and a couple of pints of Guinness please.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 4:27 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
bump 
Abbondad ( member #37898) posted at 11:20 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
Ummm...five months. Feels like five years. Can I at least hitch my skateboard to the bumper?
Divorced April Fool's Day 2014
Fear is the mind-killer.Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.I will face my fear.I will permit it to pass over me and through me.-Dune
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 1:24 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
I'm coming up on 14 months here. My callouses have callouses.
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 1:28 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 2:12 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
Oh NG, I'm not sure you should call that a win. Four years here. Sigh. Even FWB is starting to sound good and that is soooo not me. Kind of like how everyone looks good the closer you get to closing time.
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 2:33 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
Oh NG, I'm not sure you should call that a win. Four years here
I know, right?????
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
seriouslylostit ( member #23987) posted at 5:26 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
Is a friend with benefits out of the question? It seems it might empty the bus!
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 5:38 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
All you newcomers to the bus, just look up & you'll see me:
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 11:55 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
7yrsflushed ( member #32258) posted at 3:25 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
15 months and still counting.
Saw a pic somewhere that said it's like air, you never think about it until you aren't getting any.
[This message edited by 7yrsflushed at 1:58 PM, September 10th (Tuesday)]
D-day 5/24/11
BH = Me
2 children
The first true sense of calm I felt in YEARS was when I filed for D...
Divorced 9/2/14 and loving life!
curiouswiz ( member #34405) posted at 4:49 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
OMG..I just realized what this bus ride is!!! Oh, just oh...I'm beginning to feel as though I'll never get off the bus. I've been turned back into a virgin too! It's been more than 3 years for me maybe closer to 4???
I'd love a hug and a kiss and maybe a bite! grrrr....
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 6:03 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
My fellow bus riders, I bid you adieu...after 14 months B4me is exiting the bus. Although I'm not really sad to say goodbye, I did enjoy your company and it was so good to know I wasn't the only one not getting any...
satisfaction.
(a few more details can be found on my "where's the bus" post)
[This message edited by better4me at 4:39 PM, September 10th (Tuesday)]
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 6:16 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
This will put the squeeze on you bus riders!
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
Faithsurviver ( member #30860) posted at 7:22 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
Hey fellow riders, does this count? I met a great guy, were dating 2 months, we ended up between the sheets but the rocket failed to launch, twice! 
Ouch!! We are still dating but haven't tried since. I really care for him but I'm afraid its going to happen again (he has some health issues) 
BW (me) 51
XWH 53, but acts like a 15 y/o
M 18 yrs
DS 16, DD 14 (on D-day)
EA,PA with OW, 30 yrs his jr.
DDay 11/30/09 (DS's B-day), WH moved out 4 days later.
I filed for D-1/29/10,
DIVORCED 10/22/10
You can't reason with an NPD!!!
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 7:41 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
*waves goodbye to b4me*
Good for you, honey. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 7:47 AM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013
All I Can Say, I Hate Riding The Bus !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thought I was off for good but Noooooooo.....that was just a tease Gma. 
I've been alone for 5 yrs and I'm so ready for my normal . I told my family if I'm missing I'll be in Alabama for a month !
It sucks when I'm in CA and we're both so damn busy.
The bad part is I'm not interested in anyone but HIM ! God needs to to give me time off and send me to Alabama. I will take it as a Christmas Blessing. I'll take my holiday blessing early God!
Ugggggggggh !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think this state is holding me hostage.
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 2:44 PM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013
I am sooo glad I bought a lifetime bus pass!!!
I took a short detour off the bus but I am back again.
I am mighty happy to be here too! I finally reached the stage of being content of where I am at this point of life.
Cheers!
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