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				    				newnormal ( member #21925)		posted at 12:54 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013	
			 
	Yeah the bus is moving again. Here I thought I was the only one riding. 
 
 
	Pass the salt shaker and the lime please.  Whoo hoo party on! 
 
			 			BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07
Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under"  Bufffalo		
	 	 			
				    				AussieMum ( member #36579)		posted at 6:50 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013	
			 
	New passenger hopping aboard!  I should have joined the party 10 months ago. 
 
 
	I think I'll be here for a while :) 
 
			 			Me 47
ExH 51
EA Jun-Aug 12 (OW1)FB flirting and then EA/PA with OW2 (Aug-Dec 12). New OW Jan 13, introduced her to the kids immediately. 
Married 10 years, together 14yrs
2 kids (DS13 & DD8)
Separated Jan 13. Divorced Jun 14		
	 	 			
				    				fraeuken ( member #30742)		posted at 6:56 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013	
			 
	hit-by-a-train, so glad to know. 
 
 
	
 
 
			 			Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.		
	 	 			
				    				7yrsflushed ( member #32258)		posted at 3:09 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013	
			 
	I wondered where this thread went.  Well time to hop on board as well.  Been 1 year for me and since STBX is moving out this Friday I think I will enjoy the ride for awhile.  Someone point me to the tequila dispenser. 
 
			 			D-day 5/24/11
BH = Me
2 children
The first true sense of calm I felt in YEARS was when I filed for D...
Divorced 9/2/14 and loving life!		
	 	 			
				    				allatsea ( member #38923)		posted at 4:13 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013	
			 
	Has anyone thought that with all these BS's on buses that there is opportunity for the BW and BH bus to collide?! 
 
			 			You can't fix crazy. All you can do is document it		
	 	 			
				    				fadedrainbow ( member #9280)		posted at 4:22 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013	
			 
	It's been since 2008, I've been hiding under the passenger seats all this time! I'm shy. 
 
 
			 			me: FBW D-Day May 2005 divorced December 2009		
	 	 			
				    				thebighurt ( member #34722)		posted at 7:24 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013	
			 
	I was just looking for this a week or so ago.  Wondering if we are heading anyplace exciting for summer vacation....? 
 
 
	Is the driver still awake or are we parked?? 
 
			 			Finding what life could have been.......   Why didn't I see it?		
	 	 			
				    				Compartmented ( member #29410)		posted at 10:56 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013	
			 
	I was driving for awhile....am I still at the wheel?  Sorry. 
 
 
	Let's go to the mountains...too hot for the beach. 
 
 
	
 
 
 
	Destination Austria! 
 
			 	 			
				    				Compartmented ( member #29410)		posted at 12:23 AM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013	
			 
	It's awful quiet on the bus!  Where to next? 
 
 
	
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				    				harry&george ( member #34554)		posted at 1:36 AM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013	
			 
	Ok, I should have been here ages ago, it's been more like 17 months for me. 
 
 
	Please no bumpy roads in these tight jeans!! 
 
 
			 			ME: FBW 43
3 gorgeous kids
Divorced!!!		
	 	 			
				    				OnceInALifetime ( member #26023)		posted at 11:17 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013	
			 
	
It's awful quiet on the bus! Where to next? 
 
 
 
	The planet Vulcan. I think there are some pon farr rituals that are far overdue. 
 
 
	I know I'm over the edge; I initially read the last poster's name as horny&george 
 
 
			 		 			
				    				roughroadahead ( member #36060)		posted at 11:30 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013	
			 
	Remind me... how long does it have to have been to be bus-eligible? 
 
 
	Three months... and that was an ill-advised, post-S bakery opening.   
  
  
 
 
			 			BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA?  Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013.  D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism		
	 	 			
				    				Sad in AZ ( member #24239)		posted at 3:25 AM on Monday, June 24th, 2013	
			 
	You have to 'go without' for six months before you can board.  
 
 
			 			You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
		
	 	 			
				    				She11ybeanz ( member #27457)		posted at 3:28 AM on Monday, June 24th, 2013	
				"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"
ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12		
	 	 			
				    				Must Survive ( member #34533)		posted at 5:17 AM on Monday, June 24th, 2013	
			 
	Been on the bus for 19 months. I hope it is like riding a bike and that I remember what to do if I ever get lucky  
 
 
			 			Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorced-Let my new beginning start
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen 
		
	 	 			
				    				Compartmented ( member #29410)		posted at 11:35 PM on Friday, July 5th, 2013	
		 			
				    				FaithFool ( member #20150)		posted at 11:55 PM on Friday, July 5th, 2013	
			 
	Pass the limes, salt and tequila please. I just passed the five year mark. 
 
 
	Does that come with a medallion of some kind or what? 
 
 
	
 
 
			 			DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF? 
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire		
	 	 			
				    				WakingFromADream ( member #33934)		posted at 1:56 AM on Saturday, July 6th, 2013	
			 
	Hi, I'll take that comfy seat by the window.  And make mine a double, thanks. 
 
			 			Me(37) DS(9) DD 11/16/11 EA(PA?) M 11y D 9/3/13
Don't make anyone a priority when you are only an option.		
	 	 			
				    				heartbroken_kk ( member #22722)		posted at 8:59 PM on Saturday, July 6th, 2013	
				FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good. 		
	 	 			
				    				OnceInALifetime ( member #26023)		posted at 11:58 PM on Saturday, July 6th, 2013	
			 
	Just a warning to stay away from the salivating man in the far corner who's been shackled to his seat the past 5 years. Do not engage. He's gone mad and is extremely dangerous. 
 
			 		 
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