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"I didn't think you loved me, so didn't think you cared or would be mad"

"It's the first thing I ever did just for me"

"If you were a better fucking husband, it never would have happened"

"Ohhhhh, so it's always about that, nothing else" (Me asking about the A)

"You just ask me about "it", just to humiliate and intentionally hurt me"

"See, you asking me about it is why it could never work out with us"

"Grow up and get over it"

"I don't have to tell you shit"

"I won't stand to be treated like you are always checking up on me"

"My marriage has been dead for two years" (she said this face to face to the OMW as to why she got in the A)

"We both (cheaters) knew it was wrong, but couldn't stop"

"I can't turn off my feelings like a switch"

"Don't think this means anything" (said this to me before going to a nice dinner just after D-Day)

"So, I'm just a whore to fuck now" (said post D-Day with my one sided HB in full swing)

"Yeah, I did make a mistake with the timing; I should have divorced you first, then did it"

"Tell it to your imaginary internet friends"

"I was soo young, you were my first boyfriend, maybe we never should have gotten married"

"Your depression is a cop out, just more woe is me. You have nothing to be depressed about, only people who go through REAL trauma get depressed."

"I don't regret what I did"

"I don't see why this (A) affects you" (said to DD, who then violently, convulsively cried to the point of exhaustion, and the very reason she is in IC, and will be for along time)

Yep, all actually said since 5/18/12 D-Day, and a heck of a lot more.

"It's the first thing I ever did just for me"

Ugh...really?

Really.

"I never thought you'd find out; no harm, no foul."

Wow, Shockleader, you really hit the jackpot with your WW quotes. Un-fucking-believable.

Hugs from one of your imaginary internet friends. (((Shockleader)))

God almighty. Are you still together?

Thanks for the virtual hugs Sister! Hand holding, hugs and anything but Vag sex were off limits post D-Day. She would actually curl her fingers backwards, so as not to hold hands... I swear on my honor this is true!

D should be final soon Jemi, and it just gets nastier and nastier.

"Hey get over it, there are people that go through worse things than this".

Shockleader, I heard about 80% of the quotes you put up there.

I was a paratrooper and am a combat vet. The was the worst thing I have ever been through.

Believe it or not we are in R.

"Do you believe that a person can be in love with two people at the same time?"

~Mr. Happy after DD, May 2011.

WhaaaTF!

Oh, here is another zinger...

"I only kissed her titty..."

DD, Mothers Day 2011

Ooo, ooo, here is another one...

"I only had sex with her 3 times..."

Mr. Happy had a 5 year PA and a 6 1/2 year EA with Whorestein...

I was a paratrooper and am a combat vet. The was the worst thing I have ever been through.

I'm a former infantry officer, Airborne qualified (5 jump chump), and just missed going to combat, and agree; Nothing I have ever experienced is more painful than my STBXWW A, betrayal, lies, and subsequent sub human treatment of myself and daughter. Nothing even close!

...and it just gets nastier and nastier.

Stay strong my brother.

(((hugs))) from another of your imaginary friends.

Stay strong my brother.

Thanks, you too brother. Thanks for the hugs Skan, my internet apparition

Yesterday was terrible. Since she can't boot me outa the home by virtue of a court order, now she is telling her atty she feels "afraid" to be around me during in-house separation. A VAR won't help, can't catch feelings, so I have fired off a call to my atty to quash this shit right quick.

She uses my DD as a prop, stoops low to "win", cries like a F-ing baby about having "her" money split up, and how she was going to be soooo civil... Yeah, OK. And BTW, IT'S ALL MY FAULT!

A VAR won't help, can't catch feelings,

Do it anyway. It can catch whether you've actually done anything to justify those feelings. Also, if you have a VAR consistently on you then you're likely to catch her erratic behavior and your rationality. She won't have much in the way of credibility for her "feelings" then.

Tells the kids, "you will understand when you grow up".

So he is either saying your mom is awful and you will understand, or he is saying that marriage sucks and you will understand why people cheat.

Either way, ITs STILL NOT HIS FAULT. Classic cheater and NPD.

Wow, Shockleader, you really hit the jackpot with your WW quotes. Un-fucking-believable.

Echoing sentiments.

I'm so sorry.

Another hug from another internet apparition.

No one deserves this shit, but this made me shake inside - I can only imagine how you feel.

Oh, I just remembered this little gem this morning!

Me (approximately 9 months after Dday following yet more TT): Do you realize what an asshole you were?

XWH: You can't call me names! I will not be abused!

Me: Uh... pfft...

Stay strong, shockleader. None of this sh!t is for sissies.

"You can't prove shit"

"It's not an affair unless there is penetration"

Maybe this is written in an affair handbook that I was unaware of?

Thanks everyone.

I really don't understand it. Perhaps being that she never had any experience with another person in a relationship, has allowed her to see it only as her way, and not realize the pain she has caused?

I'm sure some FOO issues don't help her mental state, but her psychotic level of non empathy is remarkable. I and my DD have asked her to go for IC many times since D-Day, and every time she refuses. Her is an exact quote taken from a hand written letter I received from her over the holidays while she was out of state.

"Last week you asked if I would consider talking with someone. I know you and DD feel it is helping you; but I don't see it can help me."

WTF can you do with that?

"I didn't tell you who it was because you might make me quit my job"

F'd her boss so....Really ya think?

"Don't tell my children"

Why not exWW arn't you proud of your accomplishment?

and my #1 quote from my exWW after I told her I wanted a D.

"Would you mind if he and I date?"

You can't make this stuff up!