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gma56 (original poster member #19595) posted at 11:08 PM on Monday, April 1st, 2013
UPDATE :
Great news today. Nate is responding really well. No infections so he's going home today or tomorrow ! 
I haven't had a chance to speak directly to Mom but I'm sure she is relieved with his progress. He's eating and very alert but DSS didn't know what his treatment plan was because it's been readjusted.
This is an Easter blessing...
Gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 11:16 PM on Monday, April 1st, 2013
This is an Easter blessing
Indeed!
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 3:26 AM on Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013
Glad for the Good News!!!
Keep us posted...
Continued prayers!
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 3:39 AM on Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013
I'm keeping him on my prayer list!
But I love to hear good news and Blessings..
Keep up the great work Nate!!!
gma - give him some extra hugs from us.
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
betrayedfriend ( member #19785) posted at 6:32 AM on Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013
still praying for him and all of you :) I'm glad he may be going home soon though, that will help so much for morale :)
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
stillhere09 ( member #24924) posted at 10:45 AM on Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013
I just saw this thread - So sorry this happened, and so glad that it is going well. I'll be keeping Nathan and his family in my prayers, and you too, gma.
Me-50 BW
Him-55,STBXWH
Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M
JustDone ( member #9742) posted at 4:25 PM on Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013
I hope Nate's home and feeling better.
Thinking of you all...
Hugs!
Madhatter
Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.
BrokenRoad ( member #15334) posted at 4:37 PM on Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013
Thinkin about you and family lately. Glad things are looking up!!! 
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 4:48 PM on Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013
Thanks gma for the update, I am so happy for all of you that things are going well.
Sending continued strength and healing thoughts to you all.
((((NATE))))
((((DSS, fiancee, gma))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 5:59 PM on Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
gma56 (original poster member #19595) posted at 6:11 PM on Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013
I can't say enough about the Lucille Packard Children's Hospital. Nate LOVES it there and didn't want to leave.
They (hospital staff)have been so terrific on how they communicate to Nate about the procedures they are doing and what they are for, telling him at his 6 yr old level. They have definitely taken away much of the fear of the unknown. Mom is even doing better.
I told her I would stay with Nate so she can have some Mom time. Baby shopping, hair, or a massage would be good.
Again I thank-you SIers for all your support !
Gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 8:06 PM on Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013
What a great update! Continuing to hold Nate and your family in my thoughts, gma.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 12:44 AM on Wednesday, April 3rd, 2013
Wonderful update, gma! (And yes, they are awesome there. )
Thinking of you all...
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
redvixen ( member #15259) posted at 12:59 AM on Wednesday, April 3rd, 2013
Gma, I'm sorry I've been away for a bit and missed this..I am so sorry Nathan was so sick, and I am elated to hear he's doing much better! Keeping him in my prayers!
Me, BS Him WS early 40's at the start, cheated before and after cancer diagnosis.
Two A's, two OW's, online looking for sex partners, two false R's.
Threw him out in January 2009.
Divorce final March 30th, 2010
XWH died Dec. 2010
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 2:26 AM on Wednesday, April 3rd, 2013
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
yewtree ( member #16671) posted at 4:41 PM on Wednesday, April 3rd, 2013
Great news GMA. Enjoy your time with Nate!
Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)
Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 - No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 5:49 PM on Wednesday, April 3rd, 2013
(((((GMA and family))))
What a wonderful update.
Sending prayers and good thoughts.
ArkLaMiss ( member #14918) posted at 2:55 AM on Thursday, April 4th, 2013
Prayers for all, Gma included. Hang in there.
Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 4:44 PM on Thursday, April 4th, 2013
thinking of Nate today. Hope things continue to go well
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
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