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wantreallove ( member #37534) posted at 6:42 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

(((gma))) I will be praying for you, Nathan, and your family.

Me,BS 42 WH (masame5) 44 Married 22 yrs, 8 kids D-day 10/9/12 (caught him through fb chat)
D-day #2 11/19/12 thru 11/21/12 (found out about all the rest of the A's.) 8 AP. D-day #3 Oct 18, 2023 it's happening again... 3 AP's plus so many attempts

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Edith ( member #38337) posted at 6:55 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

Oh Gma, I am so sorry to hear this. Praying for little Nate and your family.

E.

The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness can never extinguish it. John 1:5

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itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 8:14 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

Praying for you all...

One of my best friends married a guy who had leukemia when he was a child. He's 34. They have 2 kids, and he's been in remission for a very long time

The same girl has a younger cousin who was diagnosed with leukemia when she was 5. Lydia is now in high school, and she plays hockey. With boys.

She's also in remission.

It's very scary to face, but it can be treatable!

I'll keep praying for your family, Gma.

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 gma56 (original poster member #19595) posted at 11:05 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

They've diagnosed for sure Nate has Leukemia, it's confirmed. Mom and DSS will be meeting with a team to learn more about the type he has and what options there will be for treatments.

Thank-you for all your thoughts and prayers.

Gma

BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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hexed ( member #19258) posted at 11:08 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

((gma and loved ones))

let us know how it goes. many types of leukemia are very treatable. i'm so sorry this is happening to nate.

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 1:04 AM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013

I'm so sorry, Gma.

Prayers and healing vibes are heading Nate's way }}}}}}

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

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tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 1:15 AM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013

I'm so sorry gma. Prayers and thoughts going out to you and your family and little Nate.

(((())))

Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 2:13 AM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013

(((gma, nathan, & family)))

Sending prayers.

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BrokenRoad ( member #15334) posted at 2:17 AM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013

(((gma and family)))

He can beat this.

{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

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betrayedfriend ( member #19785) posted at 2:30 AM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013

I'm so sorry for the confirmation... I will continue to keep Nathan and all of your family in our prayers.

I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 2:41 AM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013

Will be holding all of you up in prayer...

Leukemia is treatable... I hope they can knock it out and he goes on to live a happy long life.

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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timeforchange ( member #27454) posted at 5:24 AM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013

I am so sorry that leukemia has been confirmed.

I will be praying for Nathan.

Here on SI over the years you have shown yourself to be compassionate, wise, loving and supportive. Nathan is lucky to have such a grandma to love and support him during the next months.

Nathan can fight this and beat this.

And I believe you will along with his parents and step father will be a true rock to him.

When my son was little we had numerous hospital stays. In a strange way those long nights and days together where all my focus was on him 24/7 contain some of the sweetest memories of just being together and talking.

hope that among the fear and treatment Nathan and his grandma also get to build sweet memories of togetherness and closeness too.

Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”

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yewtree ( member #16671) posted at 6:08 AM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013

Prayers and strength to you all gma. Stay positive!

Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 - No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.

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painpaingoaway ( member #27196) posted at 1:27 PM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013

Oh gma, I am so sorry. Poor sweet little thing.

You have been so caring and compassionate to others, this little guy is so blessed to have you in his life.

Will be praying for all of you.

((((gma and fam)))


D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 3:44 PM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013

(((((gma, family, & Nathan)))))

2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant

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confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 6:28 PM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013

Im so sorry. Prayers being said.

BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10



..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


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confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 6:28 PM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013

Im so sorry. Prayers being said.

BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10



..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


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ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 7:40 PM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013

Tell Nate to let us know what he named it so we can all help him kick its ass.

Continued prayers.

Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34

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tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 8:03 PM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013

Sending you hugs, positive mojo, and strength for the road ahead...

(((gma and family)))

FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 8:16 PM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013

Sending continued healing thoughts and strength to all of you.

I'm so sorry for this news, I'm hoping that they can come up with an effective treatment plan for him. You are all in my thoughts, please keep us posted when you can.

In the meantime, more

((((((Nate, fiancee, DSS, gma))))))

Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

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