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GrievingMommy (original poster member #28127) posted at 9:46 PM on Wednesday, April 3rd, 2013
I think I need to start drinking.
Me - Now 36 y/o
WXH: Now 45 y/o and 18+ hrs away -NPD asshole now onto wife #3.
My sweeties: 5 yr old B/G twins. 90% custody (or more) since 14 months old.
D-Day 4/4/10 PA('s?) & EA's - D'd 7/11
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 10:26 PM on Wednesday, April 3rd, 2013
Drinking helps. 
So does lots and lots of running.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
soverybetrayed ( member #32948) posted at 10:38 PM on Wednesday, April 3rd, 2013
I was on the bus so much during the marriage that I don't remember what it is like to not be on the bus! It has been years for me and will be a few more till I even date so I guess I should be glad the ex never wanted sex. Frustrated in the marriage and out of the marriage... 
Me- Happily single
Divorced 8/23/2012
I am stronger and better than before.
GrievingMommy (original poster member #28127) posted at 10:57 PM on Wednesday, April 3rd, 2013
I better not start drinking.....I might not stop.
Me - Now 36 y/o
WXH: Now 45 y/o and 18+ hrs away -NPD asshole now onto wife #3.
My sweeties: 5 yr old B/G twins. 90% custody (or more) since 14 months old.
D-Day 4/4/10 PA('s?) & EA's - D'd 7/11
torn2bits ( member #28376) posted at 11:57 PM on Wednesday, April 3rd, 2013
Exercis made it worse for me! I could not believe the sensation. Also, I get lots and lots of offers which makes it worse.
I am not a FWB or casual sex person either. I can say that during my M, even during the years after 18 we had it at least 3 times per week. Sunday afternoons were so wonderful.
Any how, I hear ya! Oh, so ya just have to stop thinking about it....that's the trick! 
Me: 45/WH (SA): 49
M: 26 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce halted
Pass ( member #38122) posted at 10:19 PM on Thursday, April 4th, 2013
Was reading this thread earlier today and decided to take the advice to get a massage for the human contact. It was lovely. I walked out of there relaxed and happy.
And no ... it wasn't THAT kind of massage!
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
ManBearDivorce ( member #36258) posted at 6:05 AM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
HAHA! Actually exercise for me is a replacement for it. If I feel the need to I go for a run an I tend to forget about that thing. Helps me get tired and go to sleep too.
Drinking for me just ups the itch. Drunk text some people and regret it the next morning with apologies. LOL
Happydays ( member #38681) posted at 6:32 AM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
I was on the bus so much during the marriage that I don't remember what it is like to not be on the bus!
Same here! I was out of the country before d day and nothing after that.
BH 33
FWW 32
DS: 3 year old.
Dday 10/14/2012
No remorse so:
Divorced 02/15/2013. No alimony, no CS, got apartment. Won all battles and mind games off the courts.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 2:06 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
Drinking for me just ups the itch. Drunk text some people and regret it the next morning with apologies. LOL
I also have this problem. 
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
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