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2married2quit (original poster member #36555) posted at 6:40 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
So it all started with making out with WW & OM and escalated to more. However, I can't get myself to makeout with WW. I just can't. It used to be so special because I was the only man she had ever made out with. I can only do it in the passion & heat of sex. Outside of that, NO! And I told her this. Will it be like this forever? Could this be her cross? Never to makeout with tongue ever again?
It just comes back to me every single time. Much like touching her down there which OM did. HUH!
Having a bad day today. It's like I'm taking steps backwards.
Comments? 
BS - Me 47 WS - Her 45 ( she's a childhood sexual abuse survivor)
DDAY -#1- June 2012/ #2 -June 2015 / #3-August 2015
Married 25yrs. 2kids
She had 2 affairs with two different men.
Status: divorced.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 6:50 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Find how to make it yours. Your kiss is different from his, because yours has love, depth, and understanding. There is much more to it, thatn just a kiss.
Same with any sexual acts, you know it means more with you, because you love her. She loves you. That other stuff was just sex and fantasy. Not real life.
Try doing these things in a way that is different for you both. Make it mean something, but also new and different.
(((and strength)))
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
2married2quit (original poster member #36555) posted at 7:44 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
tushnurse - Thank you. Not sure how to make it diff or new, but you're right, I do have to reclaim this.
BS - Me 47 WS - Her 45 ( she's a childhood sexual abuse survivor)
DDAY -#1- June 2012/ #2 -June 2015 / #3-August 2015
Married 25yrs. 2kids
She had 2 affairs with two different men.
Status: divorced.
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