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jb3199 ( member #27673) posted at 2:10 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
I am so sorry, friend.
Bullshit on the tough-guy masculine front that many expect of us. She is family, and the pain is deep when something tragic like this happens. *wipes away tears*
At least you and OKM are together to support one another.
So, so sorry.
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BH-50s
WW-50s
2 boys
Married over 30yrs.
All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary PuckettD-Day(s): EnoughAccepting that I can/may end this marriage 7/2/14
stunnedin12 ( member #38141) posted at 2:14 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Oh, I am so sorry. Your Eva wasn't "just a kitty". Pets are family. I'm sorry for your loss.
ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Lawyers involved.
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 2:16 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
OMG! I'm so sorry to hear this. They are not just cats or dogs or any other pet. They are loved and become a member of the family just as any person would. They are loved and know how to give love in return.
I'm sorry for your loss. I have two special kitties of my own and I don't know what I would do without them.
(((HUGS))) 
She's beautiful.
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Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
Kelany ( member #34755) posted at 2:17 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
What a beatiful precious kitty. I'm so sorry for your loss.
BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12
Former 80s Icon wishful thinking
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 2:25 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
I'm so sorry, LH! She was beautiful. I'm glad that she was such a comfort to you. Take care of yourself.
(((LH and family)))
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
sailorgirl ( member #38162) posted at 2:28 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Eva was so beautiful. I am so sorry.
My husband's love for his dog was part of what made me fall in love with him. 13 years after she died, he still cries when we talk about her.
Married 14 years, three amazing kids
H had 17 month EA/PA
D-day 1/5/13
Reconcilling
tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 2:28 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
I am so very sorry LH. 
Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB
uncertainone ( member #28108) posted at 2:42 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Oh no! I'm so sorry. Had to put a loved member of our family down late last year. Hardest thing. Completely lost it. Still so hard. They're family and there are people I don't miss as much as my beloved golden.
I know he's still here. I seriously do. I can sometimes hear him. She remains with you both. She always will.
Me: 37
'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth
stilllovingher ( member #29959) posted at 2:55 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 3:08 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Oh no! I am so terribly sorry LH. She was so beautiful and I am sure she had a happy life as part of your family.
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 3:17 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss brother.
as always, strength.
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
256shute ( new member #39308) posted at 3:30 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
I am so sorry about Eva. Pets bring so much joy to any circumstances. Eva was beautiful and I'm sure she has always been there for you. Please take care of yourself.
twodoves ( member #39181) posted at 3:33 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
I'm so sorry about your kitten, that's awful. :(
Me - BS
Him - WS (N3v3rG1v1ngUp)
Together 7 years, married for 2
He was cheating for 5 years
5 OW
D-days: 4/23/13, 4/27/13, 5/10/13
1 toddler, baby girl on the way in December
forksintheroad ( member #32362) posted at 3:40 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
RIP sweet angel
35 BW(me); 35 FWH(him)
2DD's 6 yrs, 3 yrs; 2dogs/3cats
Together 16 yrs, married 8 yrs
DDay May 29, 2011; EA/PA Nov 05-March 06; working on R
People may not remember what you did or said but they will always remember how you made them feel
really trying ( member #5311) posted at 3:46 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
My hearts breaking for you
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
BeautifulEmpty ( member #38763) posted at 3:59 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
I'm so sorry...
My dog Ziggy is super smart and gets into lots of trouble because of it. He's older now so not as bad as when he was little but man! STUBBORN!
There was a long (2-3 years) of time I was absolutely lost in depression and illness. I was bed ridden, drugged out of my mind and needed to be hospitalized but my husband was more interested in his new or next hookup to take care of me or at least, find help.
No one had my back, my kids didnt understand and had rejected me because I couldn't 'mom' them and their dads new wife was telling them I was faking it. I was lost.
My Ziggy was the only one who was there. That little dog sat by my side in the dark for at least TWO YEARS...only leaving to take care of his needs.
How impossibly boring and awful that must have been for him but he did it.
I am so deeply sorry over the loss of your little girl but I am so glad she was there for you when you needed her most.
These fur babies may be annoying, stinky, loud thieves of everything good on that plate you left slightly unattended but they are also blessing, comfort, joy and reminders that things can get better...not to mention, how we should treat each other.
(((Hugs)))
Me: 44 BS
Him: 40 FWS
Ow: 47 head case, no obs
5 DD's: 23, 20, 19, 17, 12
Last D-day: August 2012 with lots of very blurry lines.
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 3:59 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Oh, honey, I am right their with you as I nurse my own sick Luna. She, too, has been my constant, loyal, loving beautiful girl and has kept me from feeling that no one loved me...
Our pets own a part of our soul and they live with us forever, but the loss of them is heart-wrenching. Please know that we are with you and holding you in the *LIGHT*
Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
OK now ( member #14459) posted at 4:01 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
So sorry LH. Eva was a living symbol of your recovery from another painful tragedy.
fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 4:18 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
So very sorry. I am a fur-mommy too and it is so hard to think abou any harm coming to them. Don't be ashamed of your tears for her.
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
newlysingle ( member #38735) posted at 4:37 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
I'm so sorry. Losing a beloved pet is so hard.
BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13
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