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notquiteoverit ( member #32919) posted at 5:57 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a beloved companion is horrible and painful.
Me - BS 50
Him - WS 49
SOW - 52 destitute loser
D-day 1/28/11
JustAShadow ( member #38370) posted at 6:07 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Such a tragic loss.
((((LH, OktoberMest, Eva))))
ME: 41 - Madhatter, 2 PAs, 1997, 2003
Him: 35 - Madhatter, 2 PAs, 2004, 3/2012 - 3/2014
Status: Living Apart
Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 7:11 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
I'm so sorry for your & OkM's loss. It's NEVER "just a cat." My heart goes out to you both. 
Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again
Staying together for the kids
D-day 2010
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 8:39 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss ((LH)) and ((OkM))
Like children, pets just seem to slide into our lives, and we wonder what we did before they arrived.
She is beautiful.
My DD's wonderful cat was hit by a car, in front of our house, and my DS is the one who had to put her out of her misery. (we were out of town). It takes an amazing person to be able to do that.
LH, you are an amazing person.
Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
SilverRose13 ( member #33982) posted at 8:41 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
No words, just hugs.
Together 25 years, Married 23
BS (me; 42)
fWS (wtsmm; 43) 2 1/2 yr LTA
2 children, 21 and 15
DD #1 9/27/2011 (EA/Sexting)
DD #2 10/3/2011 (Some PA)
DD #3 11/28/2011 (Full Disclosure*) nevermind, didn't even have half of it
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 10:27 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
I knew what you had written from the title, but my first reaction when I opened it up was, WHAT A BEAUTIFUL CAT! What a beautiful cat.
I'm so sorry for the loss of her life. She looks like she had a lot more life left.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
No humane person will say or think 'just a cat'. She's a terrible loss for you.
I'm very glad you were together for a time, though.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 10:43 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
I'm so so very sorry. 
We have an unknown number of days in this life - all of us.
You showed your sweet Eva so much love and comfort in her time here. That's all anyone can ask.
(((LH, OkM)))
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
stillhere09 ( member #24924) posted at 10:51 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Me-50 BW
Him-55,STBXWH
Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 11:19 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
I am so very, very sorry. Please accept my sincerest condolences. What a beautiful lady, she was! I'm very fond of meesers, purebreds and happy coincidences.
They really ask for so little, don't they? For a bit of food, some water, an occasional litter pan policing, they amuse you, purr in your lap, deposit dead critters in your shoes, and let you dampen their coats with your tears. They are a blessing while they are with us and too soon gone.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 1:21 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
I'm sorry.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
openedupmyeyes ( member #27871) posted at 3:48 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
So sorry for your loss. Grateful for the time you had together.
Me:55 BS
Him:55 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:37
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.
Crushed1 ( member #6449) posted at 4:21 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
Eva was beautiful, I am sorry for your loss. I picked my beloved little Chihuahua from the road five years ago after he was run over, right in front of me. It still haunts me... Again, I'm sorry for your loss.
~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH
Jaded4life ( member #37577) posted at 5:01 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. It's so sad when we lose a precious pet and member of the family. Take care of you.
D-Months: Nov & Dec 2012. TT.
tuscandreamer ( member #17406) posted at 2:35 PM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
So sorry for your loss. Losing a pet is so very hard. I understand the comfort a pet can bring when going through the pains of infidelity. My beloved Donner was my source of comfort.
I think that Eva and Donner are playing over the Rainbow Bridge together.
BS 52
WH 49
Dday #1 6/20/07, Dday #2 (different OW) 5/16/09
3 DDs (19, 14, 12)
Reconciling???
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