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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:09 PM on Thursday, August 15th, 2013
That's wonderful news!! 
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 4:25 PM on Thursday, August 15th, 2013
I'm so glad he's finally got a place.
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:35 PM on Thursday, August 15th, 2013
So very happy to read this, ppga! We're counting the minutes with you. ((((hugs))))
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 11:14 PM on Thursday, August 15th, 2013
That's great news. You and your family are in my thoughts.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 12:28 AM on Friday, August 16th, 2013
Awesome!!
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 2:42 AM on Friday, August 16th, 2013
I'm so glad he was finally able to get placed. I'll keep him in my prayers.
Hugs,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
rainagain ( member #14917) posted at 2:01 PM on Friday, August 16th, 2013
Wonderful!!
Love , peace and prayers for DS and you
Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:11 done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love- Marino Me: Divorced
painpaingoaway (original poster member #27196) posted at 5:15 PM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013
DS just called. Wanted to know if he could spend the night here tonight since we will have to leave at 6am tomorrow to get him to the rehab by 8:30am. I said yes.
I even told him I would wash his clothes for him. I'm sure none of his clothes have been washed in two months. 
I know better than to get my hopes up too much, but I am feeling encouraged by, if nothing other than the fact that he has continued to keep all his appointments that have facilitated him getting into the facility. So, for today, I chose to be happy about his situation.
D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 5:18 PM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013
Sending you and DS every bit of strength I've got.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
rainagain ( member #14917) posted at 5:31 PM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013
Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:11 done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love- Marino Me: Divorced
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 5:32 PM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013
PPG -- for today, I am happy for you. And for every day you have something positive to say about this situation!
Lots of prayers for all of you. This has been so hard on you and I'm sure DS. I'm so impressed by your resolve and strength. I hope your DS has the same during his treatment. Fingers crossed and anything else that might help.
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
UndecidedinMA ( member #33732) posted at 6:59 PM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013
(((ppga)))
I know this is the hardest thing to do but you need to be strong.
I can tell you his fate if not. He will be 58 years old living in a shed drinking beer all day. No friends cause they are mostly dead from drugs & alcohol.
That is my brother, my parents enabled him his whole life. He was bailed out of OUI's, bad checks, & other things to hard to count. The only reason I een tolreate him is for my 87yo mothers sake. I remind him every week, that when my mother goes so does he. He will be 50/60 something and homeless, no money, no job, no friends. It is a sad waste that could have been helped, they just thought being his soft place was good, it wasn't.
ME - BSO
Him - FWSO
OW - DBC Xwife
DDAY 09/14/11 ONS w/DBCxWOW with 4 mos EA
Solidly in R
painpaingoaway (original poster member #27196) posted at 7:39 PM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013
I know UDIMA. I'm trying my best, and I think I'm being strong.
D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 8:04 PM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013
(((PPGA))) I'm so excited for you both!
rainagain ( member #14917) posted at 4:41 AM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:11 done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love- Marino Me: Divorced
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:51 AM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Been thinking of you and your DS all day. Hope you are resting after a successful intake. ((((hugs))))
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
click4it ( member #209) posted at 5:00 AM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 12:12 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 1:23 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
I hope I am not overstepping here, but I know y'all truly care and are concerned. It didn't go well yesterday and PPGA and her family really need prayers/thoughts/mojo.
(((PPGA)))
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 1:29 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Sending love and mojo for you PPGA and your son and family.
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
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