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AnotherTry (original poster member #19498) posted at 8:46 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
I was really impressed with this video/article. I'm glad it was advertised so this wonderful site can help others!!
BS 41
FWH 40 (4reasonsunknown)
M 15 yrs, together 18
D-day 05/08/08
Finished almost a year of MC and WE are healed!! WE survived infidelity only through God's love and grace!!
3 wonderful girls, 14, 13, 8
With God ALL things are possible
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 8:48 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
And over 400 comments about what a slut I am 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 8:49 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
wanttogoforward ( member #29912) posted at 8:56 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
It's in the divorce section.... anyway those on there bashing your H for staying have never walked a day in any of our shoes! It's so easy before these events happen to us to sit in judgement of what our morals and values tell us to do ... and then it happens to us and we have to face it head on... there are no easy choices in life and I commend anyone who makes the changes necessary in their life to become a better person and spouse... and to go forward and help so many of us is definitely appreciated by all of us here... I guess the moral of the story here is who are we to judge unless we have walked in those shoes?....
Threnody ( member #1558) posted at 8:59 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
The comments are coming from those who haven't seen a wayward or OW who've shown remorse. It's as simple as that. I think anyone who has seen a wayward make healthy changes would not be wasting time bashing.
“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 9:00 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
Oh I could give a shit what they think about me...I'm just thrilled SI is getting so much exposure 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
StillGoing ( member #28571) posted at 9:09 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
YOu mean this idiot is still married to and living with her! Do what I did. Kick her out the door with all her belongs and good riddance of bad rubbish and don't think twice about it.
YEAH BRO YEAH, DUDE, BRO, YEA U TELL THAT INTERNET MAN YOU TELL IT HOW TO BE STRONG AND SHIT
ETA:
Sorry, my capslock isn't stuck, I was typing in snarkasm mode.
[This message edited by StillGoing at 3:13 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)]
Holly-Isis ( member #13447) posted at 9:14 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
I could only make it through two pages of comments. Most of these people are either ignorant about infidelity (and should be praying such pain never happens to them) or WSs trying to cover their tracks by being blustering fools.
I had to laugh at the comment that this wasn't an article...it was an ad for SI. Because MH and DS earn so much from the FREE they provide. 
There were a few more that had me SMH over their ridiculousness.
I wish I never needed SI, but I'm glad it existed. Otherwise, I would've been alone in this since '06 and accepted much worse treatment than I have...my experience in '99 is testament to that. 
"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*
stilllovinghim ( member #29971) posted at 9:17 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
“You have a choice. Live or die.Every breath is a choice. Every minute is a choice. Every time you don't throw yourself down the stairs, that's a choice. Every time you don't crash your car, you re-enlist.”
― Chuck Palahniuk, Survivor
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 9:18 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
Please don't make me read ALL of the articles trying to find it!! Where is it??
naivewife ( member #38375) posted at 9:19 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
D-day #1 - 1/23/13
false R, then...
D-day #2 - 3/26/13
I will come for the benefit of the sick, remaining free of all intentional injustice, of all mischief and in particular of sexual relations with both female and male persons. - Hippocratic Oath
20WrongsVs1 ( member #39000) posted at 9:24 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
I reckon if DS wanted a link here she woulda posted it, so I won't. Just go to HP and type "survivinginfidelity" in the search box at the top.
What I love are the comments about "killing trees," because of MH printing out all the emails.
fWW: 42
BH: 52
DDay: April 21, 2013
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
Former motto: "Fake it till ya make it." Now: "You can't win if you don't play."
Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 9:27 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
I love you DS and they don't know you and most likely scared to check us out. It might make them think they will be struck by the infidelity plage.
You are wonderful and they don't know your whole story. And for the people who called you names and your BS. Well, they are no saints.
BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
StillGoing ( member #28571) posted at 9:28 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
What I love are the comments about "killing trees," because of MH printing out all the emails.
I didn't even see those. WTF do they think powers their computers that they're using to gossip and judge other people, the distilled essence of tormented gelflings? Dumbasses.
hurtbs ( member #10866) posted at 9:29 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
DS - I'm glad you don't care, but it bothers me!
Me - 40 something. WXH DDay 2006, Divorced 2012
WBF DDay #1 9/2022 #2 11/2022
Single
SuperDuperWonderboy ( member #34716) posted at 9:30 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
Sometimes I forget that the internetz are full of trolls and a-holes. Then I read a comments section of almost any article, and am reminded why I only post on SI.
My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 9:31 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
This is why SI is the best infidelity forum on the internet...because of all of you
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 9:32 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
the distilled essence of tormented gelflings?
OMG, SG - you just made my year.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
naivewife ( member #38375) posted at 9:32 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
Wow, the comments are crazy, but I get it. It's amazing what you'll think/say before it happens to you. I guess it's the same way with everything. Childless people are always the experts on child raising too!
D-day #1 - 1/23/13
false R, then...
D-day #2 - 3/26/13
I will come for the benefit of the sick, remaining free of all intentional injustice, of all mischief and in particular of sexual relations with both female and male persons. - Hippocratic Oath
Jennifer99 ( member #39551) posted at 9:39 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
I wish I had time to troll around the internets all day making ridiculous comments about things I know nothing.....
oh, wait, that was me in my 20s.
WTF - I was thinking the same thing after a cnn article today - the comments...Who are these people?
How about DO something with your time.
I'd much rather be creating something or supporting something or helping someone than spending time on a bb for SI but at least my time here is productive and helpful to my sanity.
WHAT purpose do troll commenters have?
Of course I'm not spending any $$ on how my ho-ha looks either - I wonder how many starving people a labiaplasty could feed? It took 40 years of living for me to understand that *I* am weird and no one thinks like I do or if they come close they are weird too but I don't think another 40 years would help me understand wtf some people are thinking/choosing to commit their time/$/energy to.
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