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itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 2:01 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
Completely off topic, I just wanted to say that I have always loved the name "Jill".
Every Jill I have ever known has been incredibly awesome!
2oldforthis ( member #19825) posted at 2:08 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
(DS) Have you come to terms with the fact that you are married to a
Tree Killer? 
[This message edited by 2oldforthis at 8:09 AM, July 25th (Thursday)]
He did not see what he had in me, what I saw in him I did not have!
Love kills slowly.
Holly-Isis ( member #13447) posted at 2:22 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
Yup. Partial to the name Jill too.
There's one in my house and I think she's pretty terrific. 
"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 2:26 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
I just want to know what you're doing with all the money rolling in now that you got all this "free publicity" for your "business."
Sheesh, DS, share the wealth already. 
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
StillGoing ( member #28571) posted at 2:52 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
They spend it on all the purple colors. That shit gets expensive, you have to ship the 9900FF all the way from E-Phoenicia, where ancient Assemblers have to breakdown the color codes bit by bit. That's no regular shade of purple there, that's hand crafted royal html there.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 4:50 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
I just wanted to thank everyone for all their support...you guys are the best. 
I was thinking a lot about this while cleaning up the breakfast dishes and I still feel really good about it all.
I think if I had done something wrong in the interview or if any of you here thought less of me, then it would be a different story/feeling for me.
The comments over there have zero affect on me...truly And all the exposure for SI and the community here I know will bring many people comfort in knowing they have a soft spot to land without criticism.
Now I'm off to go roll around in all the money we make off of SI
Thanks again everyone!!!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Undefinabl3 ( member #36883) posted at 5:01 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
Ugg...the idiots out there that are projecting their issues onto a person and situation that they have no idea about.
Also,
I have been here a little bit, but until today i always read your name as
Deeply Sacred...
Not Deeply Scared
Thanks for the site - its been an blessing.
Me: 35 MH
Him: 41 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.
1/10/18 - Again?!? Online EA's
need_hope ( member #23989) posted at 5:21 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
I think it was (and is) brave of you and MH to start this website, share your story and help the rest of us through this. And I applaud you for doing the interview. Getting the word out to people about the website may help someone who wouldn't have found us any other way. So, kudos to you.
There is one issue that bothered me though. The first line of the article almost made me stop reading altogether.
As a society, we consider infidelity the kiss of death for a relationship, but sometimes it can actually help.
I find the idea that infidelity can HELP a relationship to be offensive. The hard work, IC, MC, talks, boundaries, etc. can all be done without the trauma of infidelity.
Me - happily engaged to a wonderful man
XWS - no longer matters
Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.
Don't fuck with me, I fuck back.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 5:35 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
The first line of the article almost made me stop reading altogether.
To clarify...that was the HP that said that...not me. I countered and said that an affair most certainly isn't the route to obtain a stronger marriage. Its the hard work, dedication and deeper bond that makes a marriage stronger (not better...stronger)
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 5:36 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
I don't know about the rest of you, but I can totally "see" some banned members via the Snark-a-tude of their comments.
What 'evs.
Let the haters hate.
Thanks, DS and MH for this site and for your devoted friendship to all of us losers, idiots and dorks.
This is the best cult I've ever joined!
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
need_hope ( member #23989) posted at 5:37 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
Oh, no worries. I know it wasn't you who said that DS. It just made me 
all the same.
Me - happily engaged to a wonderful man
XWS - no longer matters
Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.
Don't fuck with me, I fuck back.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 5:40 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
Oh good...I'm glad you knew it wasn't me!!!
I always hated that saying too
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 5:41 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
DS,you are an amazing woman. We "know" you. They don't. Im glad what they're saying isn't hurting your feelings.
(((((DS)))))
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 5:42 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
Anyone who expects intelligent comments on internet articles or news stories clearly hasn't ever spent any time on ESPN.
QFT!!! good one wal!
ETA: DS, since you're rollin in dough, can I borrow $5???
[This message edited by MissesJai at 11:42 AM, July 25th (Thursday)]
44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....
1Faith ( member #38975) posted at 6:18 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
Misinformed judgmental people who truly believe it could never happen to them....
Hhhhmmm..
I bet 99% of us thought the same regardless of what side of infidelity you are on.
Many of those judging will probably become members one day. Karma is a bitch like that.
LOVE SI and all of you here.
Thanks DS for all that you do and have done for all of us.
(((hugs)))
Sometimes my life feels like a test I didn't study for
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 6:22 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
Apparently, NYJerry has a number of troll pseudonyms 
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
Mama_of_3_Kids ( member #26651) posted at 8:26 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
"Is your husband involved in it?"
MH...nah, he's not involved in the site at all
Also, to whomever posted this, it made me literally Lol:
"Yeah, we are a cult and we worship "Jill" and her dear husband. We sacrifice a goat every fortnight, too. We dance naked at night during the full moon."
[This message edited by Mama_of_3_Kids at 2:27 PM, July 25th (Thursday)]
Me: BW/33 The kidlets: DS16, DS12, and DD10 The hounds: Three Shih Tzu's The felines: Two short haired kitteh's
SuperDuperWonderboy ( member #34716) posted at 8:32 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 8:34 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
We sacrifice a goat every fortnight
Wait, it's not forty goats a night? Sumbitch...
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 8:34 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
BTW, in case any of you forget, here's the steps to donning the S.I. uniform.
(Dayem, I wish this graphic was in purple!)
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
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